We expect the one to be the only one.

This is one of the biggest mistakes we make in relationships.

Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose.

Thank you so much for being a listener of this podcast.

And I don't believe that you're just a passive listener.

I believe that if you're listening to this podcast,

you're an active changemaker.

You're changing the way your family thinks, your community thinks,

your friends think you're having a positive impact in the world.

I'm genuinely so grateful to each and every single one of you.

Thank you so much for being here.

Today's podcast is all about how to know when you've found the one.

How do you know when you're compatible with someone?

How many times have you been out on a date and felt,

I don't know if I felt that elusive chemistry?

Or how many times have you been messaging someone and thinking to yourself,

I feel like this lacks connection.

Or how many times have you met up with someone a couple of times

and then just felt there wasn't that spark?

See, we struggle to find out whether we have compatibility, connection,

chemistry or a spark with someone

because most of our visions of these things

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