3 Questions We Ask to Romanticize Our Life and Businesses with Lori Harder
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 1 October 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
It's easy to get stuck in the grind and forget how incredible your life and business really are. That's why Lori and I started using connection rituals that help us see things differently. On a recent date night, we asked each other three questions that turned into one of the most meaningful conversations we've had in a long time. In this episode, we share those exact three questions, why they matter, and how they can shift the way you look at your wins, your growth, and even your surprises. Tune in and romanticize your life starting now!
HIGHLIGHTS
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Why it's so important to romanticize your life, relationship, and business.
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The 3 questions we asked each other on date night.
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The question that forces you to reflect on what went right this week.
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The question that unlocks pride in how you showed up.
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Why asking about surprises forces you to get out of your comfort zone.
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How intentional questions create more intimacy with your partner, peers, or team.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | if you're not constantly doing something that makes you uncomfortable, then you're falling behind |
| 0:03.5 | you don't realize it. But when you're out there like, okay, what's the next uncomfortable step? What's the next uncomfortable conversation? What's the next uncomfortable? I don't know, hire. What's the next most uncomfortable investment? What's the next? Then you're actually getting ahead. And I'm a big believer in life. You're never staying the same, ever. There's no such thing is staying the same, even though it might feel like it, just because you're zoomed in at the moment, |
| 0:23.4 | you're either staying the same, ever. There's no such thing as staying the same, even though I feel like it just because you're |
| 0:22.5 | zoomed in at the moment. |
| 0:23.7 | You're either falling behind and you don't know it, or maybe you do, or you're getting |
| 0:28.8 | ahead. |
| 0:29.4 | But there is no staying the same. |
| 0:36.1 | Welcome everybody to the Chris Harder Show, where we are making you unapologetic about your pursuit of success, knowing that when good people like you make good money, they can then do great things. |
| 0:46.3 | My name is Chris Harder and several times per week. |
| 0:48.6 | I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes, and every single tool, trick, and skill set you need to grow your business, |
| 0:54.9 | grow your money mindset, and to grow your wealth to levels that you have never reached before. |
| 0:59.4 | I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've got the experience, the connections, |
| 1:03.2 | and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful. And I'm lifting the curtain to reveal it |
| 1:08.4 | all to you in an effort to help put you in a position of |
| 1:11.1 | abundance so great that you can then be as generous as possible. So let's lock arms and let's get |
| 1:18.1 | started. And we're back with another episode of he said she said. And before we dive into the three |
| 1:25.6 | questions that we used on date night, which were really |
| 1:27.9 | awesome last night, this is your like last warning. |
| 1:31.4 | Oh my God, who's going to get it? |
| 1:33.0 | One seat left. |
| 1:34.7 | Notice that if you want to come to our house in mid-October, just a couple weeks away, |
| 1:39.6 | and do deep, deep, deep strategy on your business with Lori and I and nine other businesses |
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