3 Questions That Will Help You Romanticize Your Life with Lori Harder
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 20 May 2026
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
When was the last time you stopped to appreciate the life, business, and relationships you've built? In this episode, Lori and I share the 3 questions that led to one of the best conversations we've had in a long time. We talk about why ambitious people accidentally turn their dream life into "just another job," how to romanticize your life again instead of rushing through it, and why reflection is one of the most overlooked tools for happiness and connection. Tune in for three powerful questions that will help you reconnect, celebrate your growth, and stay grounded while building bigger dreams.
HIGHLIGHTS
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Why romanticizing your life changes how you experience success.
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The question that helps you actually celebrate your wins.
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How reflection creates deeper connection in relationships.
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The weekly question that instantly shifts your mindset.
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Ways to feel more grateful, grounded, and inspired.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | if you're not constantly doing something that makes you uncomfortable, then you're falling behind |
| 0:03.5 | you don't realize it. But when you're out there like, okay, what's the next uncomfortable step? What's the next uncomfortable conversation? What's the next uncomfortable? I don't know, hire. What's the next most uncomfortable investment? What's the next? Then you're actually getting ahead. And I'm a big believer in life. You're never staying the same, ever. There's no such thing is staying the same, even though it might feel like it, just because you're zoomed in at the moment, |
| 0:23.4 | you're either staying the same, ever. There's no such thing as staying the same, even though I feel like it just because you're |
| 0:22.5 | zoomed in at the moment. |
| 0:23.7 | You're either falling behind and you don't know it, or maybe you do, or you're getting |
| 0:28.8 | ahead. |
| 0:29.4 | But there is no staying the same. |
| 0:36.1 | Welcome everybody to the Chris Harder Show, where we are making you unapologetic about your pursuit of success, knowing that when good people like you make good money, they can then do great things. |
| 0:46.3 | My name is Chris Harder and several times per week. |
| 0:48.6 | I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes, and every single tool, trick, and skill set you need to grow your business, |
| 0:54.9 | grow your money mindset, and to grow your wealth to levels that you have never reached before. |
| 0:59.4 | I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've got the experience, the connections, |
| 1:03.2 | and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful. And I'm lifting the curtain to reveal it |
| 1:08.4 | all to you in an effort to help put you in a position of |
| 1:11.1 | abundance so great that you can then be as generous as possible. So let's lock arms and let's get |
| 1:18.1 | started. And we're back with another episode of he said she said. Okay last night, Lori and I |
| 1:26.1 | dear are typical Friday night date night and we don't |
| 1:29.3 | do the same Friday night all the time but we're usually tired on a Friday and we usually want to |
| 1:33.7 | have like that local uh like comfy food feeling and so there's one of two places we'll go on a Friday |
| 1:40.3 | it's either a place called bandera in you know Newport beach there here or it's a place place actually I don't want to tell you this name of the sushi place because I don't want anyone to go. It's a tiny hole in the wall neighborhood joint. I'm not going to tell you where it is. It's awesome. But it's like your perfect neighborhood sushi joint where you walk in, they yell, hey, and they know you and the waiters and waitresses |
| 2:01.0 | know you and it's the best sushi on the planet. And so anyways, yeah, I'm going to gate keep |
| 2:05.4 | that one. So we go there last night and Lori and I have always been very good at asking |
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