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Build with Leila Hormozi

3 Psychological Tricks to Stop Beating Yourself Up | Ep 47

Build with Leila Hormozi

Leila Hormozi

Education, Entrepreneurship, Management, How To, Business

5867 Ratings

🗓️ 20 June 2023

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

"Beating yourself up isn't gonna do anything." Today, Leila (@LeilaHormozi) shares with us how to stop beating yourself up over mistakes and failures when trying to achieve success, and lists down three psychological tricks for reframing your mindset and expectations.

Welcome to Build where we talk about the lessons I have learned in scaling big businesses, gaining millions in sales, and helping our portfolio companies do the same. Buckle up, because we’re creating an unshakeable business.

Timestamps:

(1:53) - Mistakes and failures are prerequisite for success.

(3:36) - Our most powerful learnings come from mistakes and failures.

(7:37) - Trick 1: Learn to switch the energy.

(8:50) - Trick 2: Find helpful lessons from experience.

(10:14) - Trick 3: Expect yourself to make mistakes.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Humans have the tendency to err towards the negative, and I want to train myself to go towards

0:04.2

the positive and say, what can I positively take away from this experience?

0:12.2

How do you create an unshakable business? I cross $100 million in net worth by the age of 28.

0:17.8

Now I'm growing acquisition.com into a billion dollar portfolio. In this podcast,

0:21.6

I share the lessons I've learned in scaling big businesses and helping our portfolio companies

0:25.5

do the same. Buckle up and let's build. What is up? Today, what I want to talk about is how

0:34.8

I stopped beating myself up despite my mistakes and

0:38.1

failures while building my business. And this came from a question that somebody asked in,

0:42.1

I think it was like an Instagram poll. And they basically said, you know, how do you keep

0:45.4

moving forward without beating yourself up when you've made so many mistakes? And this wasn't

0:49.6

directed toward me, though I've made countless mistakes. But it was really directed about

0:53.5

themselves. And this is a

0:54.6

question that I've gotten time and time again. And I kind of had to put more thought towards it because

0:58.5

I could regurgitate with some other YouTube person or podcast as told you, but it wouldn't be the

1:02.4

truth. And so I really had to dissect my mental framework for how I stopped doing this to myself.

1:07.3

And I'll start with the premise, which is I think that anyone who is driven towards success

1:12.8

and who is ambitious, a lot of the times they, the other side of that ambition or the other

1:19.0

side of that success is that that person tends to be very hard on themselves.

1:22.5

And so a lot of the times the beliefs that come with that are beliefs like, well, I don't

1:26.9

know if I could be successful if I didn't beat myself up, if I wasn't so hard on myself, et cetera, et cetera.

1:32.9

And I don't believe this to be true.

1:35.1

It was a belief that I held for a very long time, which was if I'm not hard on myself, and I'm not extremely judgmental and critical of myself, then I'm not going to have this drive to succeed. But what it actually

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