Hi, I'm Dr. Edie. This is the Dr. Edie show. Today we're talking about marriage.

Three keys to a strong marriage. You're going to love this one. You might get offended.

But open your heart. It's a great episode. Let's dive in.

Key number one is you are 100% in charge of the love you experience in your marriage.

How many of you don't believe that?

You think that the other person and how they act and how they treat you and what they do

is in charge of your experience in life mentoring school.

Your thoughts give you your feelings, okay? And so if you want to feel more love,

remember that scripture that says be transformed by the renewing of your mind. It doesn't say be

transformed by the renewing of your spouse. You want to feel more love in your relationship.

Guess what you need to do. You need to think more loving thoughts. Now, this is not going to come easy

because our brains are wired to think more negative thoughts because

they're wired for survival and wired to keep us alive so our brains are always scanning for

everything that's wrong so unless you have learned to be transformed by the renewing of your

mind unless you're working on that.

And I highly recommend that you get on our waiting list if you're not and join us.

This is what we work on in life mentoring school.

We work on being transformed by the renewing of our minds.

If you haven't been accustomed to working on that,

it's so easy to think that we need everything else to change in order for us to feel love.

We need spouse to change so we can feel more love for spouse.

We need children to change.

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