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The Chris Harder Show

3 Hard Questions That Can Completely Change Your Future with Lori Harder

The Chris Harder Show

Chris Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2026

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Are your daily habits, routines, and decisions actually aligned for the life you say you want? In this episode, Lori and I share the 3 self-audit questions inspired by a story from Salesforce Founder, Marc Benioff, about working with Tony Robbins. We talk about how the quality of your questions directly shapes the quality of your business, relationships, happiness, and growth. We also open up about finding joy during difficult seasons, creating "bright spots" even when life feels heavy, and why happiness isn't about avoiding challenges. Get ready to rethink the way your habits, routines, and priorities are shaping the life you're building.

 

HIGHLIGHTS

  • The self-audit question that exposes whether your habits match your goals.

  • How your calendar predicts the future you're creating.

  • The difference between productive work and "default" busy work.

  • The mindset shift that helps you find joy even in difficult moments.

  • Why "bright spots" matter more than waiting for life to feel easier.

  • A question to measure if you're really living a happy life.

 

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FOLLOW

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Lori: @loriharder

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Transcript

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0:00.0

If I died tomorrow, would my friends and family say that I was living a life that made me happy?

0:07.2

Like, if not to be happy, what is the purpose of living?

0:11.9

It doesn't mean you get to do everything.

0:13.7

That's a happy thing to do.

0:15.0

It means you're finding joy in doing things, even if they're not joyful things to do.

0:20.6

And that is a superpower to be able to build.

0:29.0

Welcome everybody to the Chris Harder show where we are making you unapologetic about your pursuit of

0:34.1

success, knowing that when good people like you make good money, they can then do great things. My name is Chris Harder and several times per week, I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes, and every single tool, trick, and skill set you need to grow your business, grow your money mindset, and to grow your wealth to levels that you have never reached before. I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've got the experience, the connections,

0:56.1

and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful.

0:58.9

And I'm lifting the curtain to reveal it all to you

1:01.9

in an effort to help put you in a position of abundance

1:04.4

so great that you can then be as generous as possible.

1:08.6

So let's lock arms and let's get started. And we're back.

1:15.4

Another episode of He Said, She Said. Okay, before we get started, by the way, we have a great

1:19.3

episode about questions. You need to be asking yourself to see if you are on track for your goals

1:25.2

or not, we're going to actually give you kind of these self-audit questions and they're really good. And I'll tell you where they came from in a minute. But before we do that, we're doing something that we have never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, done before. And really, it's Lori doing something that she's never done before. So you guys know that we have mental collective mastermindness for people, have a business up to $500,000 a year. And then you know that we have elite level mastermind, which is for everyone that has typically a seven or eight figure business. And you know that once in a while I take on one-on-one clients for working with you side-by-side locking arms for six months or a year and being able to redesign your business, connect you to people you need to be connected to, et cetera. But Lori has never, ever been a part of one-on-one consulting, one-on-one coaching. And she could, well, I don't want to put the words in your mouth, but you can't even mean you're like, I'm kind of getting the bug to do it.

2:23.4

Well, I've had a few people just ask me if I do coaching. And here's the thing is that,

2:31.3

Chris, you have always handled like the really clear strategy so well that I've always been like,

2:35.7

well, he's really the strategist, but I am such an ideator.

2:42.7

Like the amount of vision and ideation that I have, especially for other people's businesses,

2:50.0

is a gift. Like I am super aware that it's a very clear gift that I get downloaded with lots of ideas, lots of vision for people. And I also

2:51.9

know that I'm really incredible at clearing up the fear for people and showing them how important

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