299: YOUR SEXUAL INTIMACY DURING THE HOLIDAYS

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 24 November 2015

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Your to-do list is a mile long as the holidays and the end of the year approaches. You have meetings, parties, shopping, last minute errands, cleaning the house, end of the year reports, travel, kids out of school, and more that need to get done. There is so much to do and yet your sexual intimacy gets push aside for this "season", to another day, another week, or maybe you'll wait until next year. Yes you'll celebrate New Year’s together. Hugging, kissing and then starting the new year cuddled together under the sheets. Right? Hopefully, but usually not. This is NOT the season to put your marriage and your sexual intimacy on the back burner. When you are not intentional about your marriage during the holidays the smiley faces come out, but deep down there is hurt, anxiety and frustration. Both of you begin to push each other away, as other things become more important and you drift apart hoping it will be better on New Year's Eve. You may be thinking that you don’t want to start next year the way that this year is ending... Disconnected, lack of communication and not having sex. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about being intentional with all aspects of your marriage, especially your sexual intimacy during the holiday season. EPISODE SPONSOR | I Love You But I Don’t Trust You Webinar Join us for the “I Love You But I Don’t Trust You: 4 Simple Strategies To Build, Maintain, and Regain Trust In Your Relationship” webinar on Wednesday December 2nd. During this free webinar you will learn: A practical step-by-step process for rebuilding trust after porn, infidelity, suspicion and harmful mistakes (even if your partner is not on board). Register today for our I Love You But I Don’t Trust You Webinar. 15 Ways to Romance Your Spouse Over the Next 30 Days Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is the One Extraordinary Marriage Show,
0:04.4	where being busy is overdone.
0:05.9	Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guest work out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:11.5	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful
0:14.5	wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex,
0:21.4	love, and commitment.
0:23.2	Give us a call it 858, 876, 563.
0:27.5	That's 858, 876, 5663.
0:31.1	In today's show we talk about being intentional about all aspects of your
0:37.3	marriage especially your physical intimacy during this holiday
0:41.0	season. And I found this quote talking about intentional living and it's attributed to anonymous
0:46.4	so I can't really give a huge shout out to who said it, but I think you'll get why it's so important here in a second.
0:52.1	It said intentional living means
0:54.5	making choices based on your greatest values, not the habits of others. And we're
1:00.5	going to be talking today really digging into this whole idea about making
1:04.9	those choices based on your greatest values, essentially making choices based on your
1:09.4	marriage.
1:10.4	But before we do that, one of the highlights of my show, and I probably say it every week because it really is a highlight for me, is this week's hug.
1:18.0	And this week's hug is brought to you by One Extraordinary Marriages.
1:21.0	I love you, but I don't trust you webinar.
1:24.0	Join us for the I love you but I don't trust you four simple strategies to
1:28.9	build maintain and regain trust in your relationship. The webinar is Wednesday, December 2nd.
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