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Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

296 | we don't need each other anymore

Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

Shawn Johnson + Andrew East

Society & Culture

5.039.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2026

⏱️ 61 minutes

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This episode got raw. In Episode 2 of our series, we sit down as husband and wife and say the words that made us most vulnerable: we don’t need each other. What started as an honest conversation turned emotional—tears, tension, disagreements, and a level of vulnerability we’ve never shared publicly. We talk about breaking free from co-dependency, redefining partnership, and what it actually means to choose each other instead of needing each other to survive. We’d love to hear your thoughts— 👉 Did this episode resonate with you? 👉 Did it challenge how you see relationships? 👉 Any insights or personal experiences you want to share? Please keep the conversation respectful and open. This space is for reflection, not judgment. Momentous ▶ Thanks to Momentous for partnering with us! Get up to 35% off your first order using our link https://momentous.yt.link/qjjU1zE or code SHAWNANDREW to try Momentous Creatine Chews for yourself. Kachava ▶ Rewild your nutrition at https://www.kachava.com and use code EASTFAM. New customers get twenty dollars off an order of two bags or more, now through the 31st! Wayfair ▶ Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to https://www.Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Dupe ▶ Using https://www.Dupe.com is insanely simple. Just paste any product URL — or even upload a photo — and it’ll instantly show you similar items for way less. There’s also an app and a browser extension if you want to make it even easier. No account needed, totally free. Start saving money with https://www.Dupe.com today. Go-GURT Simply ▶ Go-GURT Simply comes in flavors like Strawberry and Mixed Berry, and you can find it at a retailer near you. Just a quick note: Go-GURT Simply contains 16 grams of total sugar per serving and 5 grams per tube, while Original Go-GURT contains 23 grams of total sugar per serving and 7 grams per tube. Follow our podcast Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ Follow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en (00:00) we don’t need each other (03:00) accolades, do they matter? (10:43) what’s factual vs what’s emotional (15:00) “it doesn’t mean anything if you’re by yourself” (18:47) can you have an integrated, codependent marriage? (26:05) we can, but we’re better as a team (31:11) “i could, but is that what i want?” (38:22) choosing each other (43:56) we don’t know, but we’re trying (52:16) is the grass greener? can i do this alone? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Ladies and gentlemen, we don't need each other.

0:06.4

Sean does not need me.

0:10.5

What are your thoughts?

0:12.3

You know what I love, Andrew?

0:13.5

What?

0:16.1

You know what I love more than the argument that we got in?

0:24.2

Probably the first week of dating when you're like,

0:32.8

my job is to not make you happy. You know what I love more than that is when you bring up stuff like this. Why? I feel like you might be getting sad at this thought i am because i just think it's i don't think

0:40.9

this is a good way to go about marriage to like remind each other all the time like i just need you

0:47.0

to remember you don't need me and i don't need you and it's like that's not the goal of marriage

0:53.6

thank you that's exactly the point i know but it's that's not the goal of marriage. Thank you.

0:55.0

That's exactly the point.

0:56.7

I know, but it's, that's not your argument.

0:59.1

Your argument all the time is I need you to remember we don't need each other.

1:02.2

No.

1:02.9

And that's, it's like the, yeah, I just, it's really frustrating.

1:07.2

Okay, well, let's talk about this.

1:09.1

Let's talk about this, because I want to start by reading a list of your accolades here.

1:14.3

Why?

1:14.9

Because it emphasizes how you don't need me.

1:18.9

And I think maybe it is good for you to be reminded of that, that you are an incredible woman.

1:23.5

I don't need to be reminded that I don't need you because I do need you.

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