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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#295: We All "Deconstruct," It's Reconstructing That Matters

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Questions about sexuality, sexual abuse, and gender have sent a new wave of “deconstructing” throughout the Christian community—people turning from their faith because God hasn’t turned out to be who they thought He was. When a loved one struggles, we tend to get nervous and try to talk them out of their doubts or choices. Join us for a conversation about why it's okay—and even good—for us to wrestle with our faith and ask God hard questions.

Guests: Hannah Nitz & Tricia Lott Williford

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0:00.0

Hey friend, this is Julie and you are listening to Job With Julie.

0:09.1

This podcast is a production of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's

0:15.0

design for sexuality.

0:17.4

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0:22.6

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0:29.6

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0:36.6

Today I'm grabbing Java with Hannah

0:39.2

Nitz and Trisha Lott Wilford. I wanted to talk about something that is currently happening a lot

0:45.0

in our culture. You've heard me talk about it before. It's the idea of deconstructing from

0:50.2

Christianity. Predominantly young Christians are now walking away from their faith at record

0:55.7

numbers because God hasn't turned out to be who they thought he was. And questions about sexuality

1:01.0

can be a major factor in that. So how do you respond when a friend or family member is

1:06.5

deconstructing or questioning what they believe? How do you walk with them? Do you have to have answers to all their questions? How about if you're deconstructing or questioning what they believe. How do you walk with them? Do you have to have

1:11.5

answers to all their questions? How about if you're deconstructing? Well, that's our conversation

1:17.2

for today. So let's head to the coffee shop with Hannah Nitz and Tricia Williford.

1:24.5

So a new phrase has really been popping up in Christian circles, and it's this phrase

1:30.7

deconstructing from the faith or deconstructing from Christianity.

1:36.1

And there have been some pretty public examples of that, but it's kind of prompted this

1:40.4

conversation of people even just saying, yeah, I'm deconstructing from my evangelical roots or from my childhood faith.

1:48.1

And it has the concept of, I no longer think I believe what I believed in the past.

1:55.8

And I know each of us in our own way, in our own journey, with our own friends, have seen this happen. But I thought it would be good just to have a conversation of what is deconstructing? Why do we deconstruct? And most importantly, like, where's our anger through it? So thanks for joining me for this. Yeah. Yeah. I know you two have never done this, right?

2:18.1

I don't know.

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