That's not to say that I don't have my own tornadoes. I want to be real clear on that and in talking to other advocates we all laugh that you know I'll be having a tornado over the fact that I can't open the bag that my coffee beans can't came in it. And then suddenly I get a crisis call

and it's like, you know, you immediately drop in

because you've developed.

It's like a switch that flips when you do this work

to where you're able to drop into a different kind of presence

and then hang up the call debrief for a little bit and go back to you know

crying about my coffee beans so... Oh my gosh I'm not the only one.

I'm not the only one. Who goes to that?

That flip switch.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily.

And I'm Dedicher. We believe in looking to the future of relationships

not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating,

or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you, and we're here for you.

Fongs I know I did forcing me to for myself to fix.

Hey listeners I'm jumping in with a quick content warning about today's episode so we are

going to be talking about abuse, violence, sexual assault, and survivorhood.

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