One day she said to her mum,

It's weird.

He's so nice to me.

Her mum replied,

That's how it's supposed to be. You're kind, you show up, you care. Yet somehow you constantly end up with people who just can't give you the same.

In this video, I want to show you why that keeps happening and how to finally break free from

this pattern. This pattern where even if people say the right things, when it's time to be there

in the ways that count, they disappear. And because you're not sure where you stand, you swing between

euphoria when they call and anxiety when they don't. You lose sleep, your appetite, your ability to think

clearly. It feels like love, but it costs you your peace. Eventually, you manage to pull yourself away.

You tell yourself that next time you want someone who's steady, kind, someone who knows how to show up,

then that person arrives and suddenly you feel nothing.

No spark, no urgency, just a quiet, dull sense of meh.

So what do you do?

You go back to the one who makes you feel alive and horrible all over again.

Why? Why do the best people, the thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, self-aware people, fall for partners who never meet them halfway?

Let's talk about the five hidden reasons behind this cycle and how you can break it.

The first is the scarcity mindset.

Imagine you're at a party party hoping to meet someone amazing.

You talk to a few people, but nothing really clicks.

And as the party goes on, you start to wonder,

am I being too picky?

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