294: YOU HAVE 168 HOURS EACH WEEK

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2015

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

You’re busy. There is a lot going on in your life. When you’re dating or even newly married it seems like you have the ability to make the time for one another no matter what. You’ll rearrange your schedule. You’ll say no to other people or activities that would take you away from your love. And then over time... well other things start to fill up that time. The less time you spend engaged in your relationship the more disconnect there is. No matter if you have been married, 3 months or 30 years you still have to get to know your spouse. When you stop giving that time to one another, when you stop learning about one another there is a natural drift apart that occurs. Without some type of behavior change that gap can get wider and wider. You know when you are co-existing in the same house, but not really growing together. It's time to do a time makeover... In looking at your week you will begin to see the time that you do have together, is it really quality time? Or do you just happen to be home at the same time. Are you doing things together? Are you talking? Are you dating? Are you having sex? In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about what you can do together to find those chunks of time in your 168 hours each week so you connect regularly. EPISODE SPONSOR | Audible 30-Day Free Trial Here at ONE Extraordinary Marriage we already know that you like to listen to great content through your phone or your computer. We also know that you like to have your content available everywhere you go. With audible you can Choose from over 180,000 titles. One that we have talked about on the show is ScreamFree Marriage: Calming Down, Growing Up, and Getting Closer. Get this or any other title with your Audible 30-day FREE trial. Get More Quality Time Workshop Scheduling Sex... A Quick Intimacy Lifestyle Overview [VIDEO] Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.
0:04.3	We're being busy is overdone. Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork
0:09.2	out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:11.1	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife,
0:14.4	Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex,
0:20.4	love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858
0:23.4	876 563 that's 858 876 5663
0:29.2	In today's show we talk about what you can do together to find those chunks of time in your
0:37.0	weekly schedule so you can connect regularly.
0:41.2	And this quote that we found by you know the almighty writer anonymous this week
0:46.0	speaks to this very thing and said there is no lack of time there's a lack of
0:51.4	interest so true there's a lack of interest. So true. So true. I like we're going to unpack that
0:56.9	whole thing in today's show but before we do we want to get to this week's
1:00.5	hug and this week's hug is brought to you by audible.com.
1:03.4	You know here at one extraordinary marriage we already know that you like to
1:07.1	listen to great content through your phone or your computer. We also like to
1:10.8	we also know that you like to have your content available with you everywhere you go.
1:15.3	With Audible you can choose over 180,000 titles.
1:19.7	That's just mind-blowing.
1:21.5	And one that we've talked about on the show many many times it
1:24.4	actually came up with a few of my coaching clients this past week is Gary
1:28.0	Chapman's the five love languages and this is a book that's available on audible
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