294: Why They Act Interested, Then Disappear... (The REAL Reason)

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Why do great dates sometimes lead to radio silence? In this new Love Life episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into the mystery of why someone might pull away after what seemed like a perfect first (or second, or third) date.

From the elusive “spark” to deeper compatibility issues, you’ll learn surprising reasons why people choose not to pursue another date—and how to avoid taking it personally.

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0:00.0	Well, we're back with another love life episode with me, Matthew Hussey, Stephen Hussey, and
0:09.8	Audrey Hussey.
0:11.5	Hello, friends.
0:12.7	Hello, everyone.
0:13.7	We're excited to be back.
0:15.2	We've got a great episode lined up.
0:16.9	We're going to be talking about why people pull away after great dates. Why is it? You can go on a
0:23.2	date. It feels like it went well. All the signs pointed to the two of you having a good time. And then
0:28.9	nothing. Complete anti-climax. So we're going to talk about some of the reasons why that happens.
0:35.2	We have a poll that we put out on Instagram that we're
0:38.2	going to be talking about in relation to this subject. We're going to be reading some lovely
0:43.1	love life listener comments that have come in. And we've been really enjoying the fact that more of you
0:49.0	are emailing us podcast at Matthew Hussie.com. More of you are leaving comments under our Spotify episodes on YouTube.
0:56.8	It's lovely.
0:57.8	So thank you so, so much.
1:00.2	We have a Love Life line question from one of our dear listeners, Paula.
1:05.9	A brand new segment of Steve's sleeves.
1:09.0	I'll roll them up right now.
1:16.2	Fully bought into Steve's sleeves now is Stephen. And of course, if you are one of our love life members, we have all sorts of wonderful things coming up, including coach check-ins
1:21.0	with Audrey. You're going to be working with all of our love life members on May the 2nd.
1:25.2	I am going to be doing a live session with everyone answering questions,
1:28.7	bringing on live callers on May the 9th. Stephen is May the 16th and then we have Audrey again on
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