Do you lay awake at night wondering if you should leave your relationship? It's excruciating

to feel so alone in a struggling relationship. But the thing is, leaving is scary and hard. So it

feels like you're stuck in that awful place between not getting your needs met and the expense

and the embarrassment and the heartache of ending it.

In this video, I'm going to show you three ways to know whether your husband will ever change so you can stop agonizing and make the biggest decision of your life without regrets,

just like thousands of women I've helped out of your same spot over the last 25 years.

One way to know if your husband will change is if you're

doing work that's backfiring on your relationship. I know you're probably exhausted from trying

everything. Maybe you're the only one trying. I was there too, sitting on the great couch in the

marriage counselor's office, convinced I was going to have

to get divorced or spend the rest of my life in a loveless, painful marriage because he wouldn't do

the things I told him I needed from him, like dishes and earning more money and doing things as a

team. I was miserable and frustrated and convinced that my husband would never change.

And thank God, I didn't leave because I would have missed out on the fairy tale marriage I have now,

where he's become the man of my dreams again.

And I feel so supported and very much like a team, like how he was just saying how beautiful

I was while he was setting up the camera and the mic and the lights for this video for me.

What I didn't realize was the work I was doing on a relationship was backfiring.

The things that I thought I had to do to fix our marriage were they were actually making

things worse.

Here's what I mean.

One painful part of my marriage was that my husband was distant and avoidant.

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