292 - Myth Busters: High Frequency = Sexual Health

Pure Desire Podcast

Pure Desire Ministries

Sexual Addiction Recovery, Religion & Spirituality, Celebrate Recovery, Sexuality, Porn Recovery, Porn Addiction Recovery, Health & Fitness, Aa, Education, Betrayal Trauma, Recovery, Biblical Recovery, Christian Recovery, Healing, Sa, Christianity, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 7 February 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Whether it's through our upbringing, social media, or our culture, there is a belief that sexual health in a marriage means LOTS of sex. On today's episode, we identify this belief as a myth. We discuss why we believe this myth and how damaging it is to marriages. We also discuss how a comparison mindset impacts our relationships, how couples can find a healthy frequency of sexual intimacy, and the definition of sexual health in a marriage.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Pure Desire Podcast, helping you take back your life from unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma.
0:10.3	What's up, party people? I'm your host, Trevor Windsor, and you're listening to Episode 292 of the Pure Desire podcast.
0:15.9	You're joining me as always as my co-host, Nick Stumbo.
0:18.4	I'm not a smart man, but I know what love is.
0:26.6	Jenny, why don't you love me?
0:30.1	Oh my gosh.
0:32.9	I just want to get right into it.
0:34.0	We had Rodney and Tracy Wright on the episode today to do another MythBusters
0:40.1	episode that the myth is that higher frequency equals sexual health. So Stumbo, do your magic.
0:47.4	Show me how you can tie that in. Yes. Well, as you know, Forrest Gump was struggled with some of the
0:52.1	ways that his, you know, his love Jenny turned
0:55.2	out to not really be in love with him. And he was trying to figure out why, you know, and get
0:59.5	to the heart of what was going on in her life. And I think for many couples, sexual frequency
1:04.3	does become inadvertent whether intentionally or not has become for many people a measurement
1:09.7	of love, a measurement of
1:11.0	am I valued and loved, particularly, if I'm honest, I think more often than not, men can really
1:16.6	be driven by this. It's something we're using to measure love and can lead us to feel like,
1:21.6	why don't you love me? When really there's, there's a lot more that we want to think through
1:25.9	today and kind of maybe unpack why this myth has developed, where it comes from, and how we can approach
1:32.3	sexual frequency in our marriage in a much more healthy way that does leave us feeling
1:37.5	valued, loved, and cared for whichever spouse we are. So I hope that's an outcome of today's
1:44.1	episode. Yeah, you know,
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