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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

292: IT’S BEEN TOO LONG SINCE WE’VE HAD SEX

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2015

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

When you have said to yourself and/or to your spouse, "It's been too long since we've had sex", then it's time to sit down to figure out what is going on. The topic of sexless marriages is one a lot of people shy away from. Most of the time because if it is not talked about then the problem doesn't exist. Unfortunately, roughly 15% of marriage have not had sex with their spouse in the last six to twelve months, according to Denise A. Donnelly, associate professor of sociology at Georgia State University. Sexless marriages by definition are marriages in which a couple has sex less than 10-12 times per year. Why is this happening: too much rejection broken trust lack of communication medication What we cover in this show is NOT those seasons of marriage where you are unable to have sex due to medical conditions OR physical limitations, but areas that you can address in a physically healthy marriage. In this week's show Tony and Alisa dive into why there has been an increase in sexless marriages and the impact it has on you. EPISODE SPONSOR | Audible 30-Day Free Trial Here at ONE Extraordinary Marriage we already know that you like to listen to great content through your phone or your computer. We also know that you like to have your content available everywhere you go. With audible you can Choose from over 180,000 titles. One that we have talked about on the show is ScreamFree Marriage: Calming Down, Growing Up, and Getting Closer. Get this or any other title with your Audible 30-day FREE trial. The Rise of All-Purpose Antidepressants The Brutal Truth About Sexless Marriages When Sex Leaves the Marriage On Air with Ella - One (HOT!) Extraordinary Marriage Trust Me! Restore, Renew & Rebuild Your Foundation He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Did you know the average couple waits six years to get help for challenges in their marriage?

0:04.3

That's six years of struggling and feeling like something's off.

0:07.2

Of wondering why you can't seem to change things.

0:09.6

Stop waiting and apply for coaching today at One Extraordinary Marriage.

0:12.6

Dot com.

0:13.8

From San Diego, California, this is the One Extraordinary Marriage Show.

0:18.5

We're being busy is overdone.

0:20.1

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

0:25.0

I'm Tony Delorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

0:29.0

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and

0:34.9

commitment. Give us a call at 858 876 563. That's 858 876. 563. 858 87666-63.

0:45.6

In today's show, we dive into why there has been an increase in sexless marriages and

0:51.0

the impact it has on you.

0:53.0

I want you to think about this quote from Mother Teresa.

0:56.0

She said, loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.

1:02.0

And a lot of that plays into the cycle that happens

1:05.6

in sexless marriages and we're going to be digging into that quite a bit today

1:08.1

but before we do that you know one of the most favorite parts of the show for me is

1:12.3

talking about the hug

1:14.0

and this week's hug is brought to you by audible.com.

1:17.4

Here at one extraordinary marriage we already know that you like to listen to great

1:20.6

content through your phone or on your computer.

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