Welcome to the Pure Desire Podcast, helping you take back your life from unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma.

Hello, hello, I am your host, Trevor Windsor, and you're listening to Episode 290 of the Pure Desire Podcast.

You're joining me as always as my co-host, Nick Stambo.

Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives.

Be honest with me.

Did, when you were in high school, did you watch that when you came home from school?

Trevor, I grew up in a biblical, believing Christian home.

We didn't watch that show.

I only saw it when I was a grade schooler and would stay home from

school and could watch daytime TV. Oh, okay. No, I doubt that's very true there. I'm sure my mom,

you know, I'm old enough that the only TV we would have had would have been in the family living

room. There would have been no remote control. And days of our lives certainly would not have been a program my mother would have approved not on top 10 approved i doubt i doubt even then i was watching days of our lives on sick days at home

it's fine you just saved yourself from lots of judgment for me no actually you know what there may be some listeners out there who did watch it and i listen

i get that it's a genre that

people like or it wouldn't be on TV. So let's move on though. We are finishing out our peer

desire foundations series and we had Heather Kolb, our content manager on to talk about the foundation

of the approach that we use called the family systems model. Yes.

And as I've mentioned, I was not a big soap opera viewer, but as I've understood them to be,

they're filled with a lot of relational family drama.

And if you were to look at those shows, you know, the need for healing in someone's life

would have been pretty ubiquitous all throughout the show.

Like all the

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