Hi guys and welcome back to Adulting. This week I'm joined by Sophie Hagen.

Oh hello! I was like, oh I was listening to it in my head. I was like, oh that's great

for us. Great for us. I'm so excited to have Sophie on as a guest. She's actually one of

the people that I've always wanted to have on. So just to have you in the flashes,

really exciting. Do you want to introduce yourself as who you are and what you do? Yeah, I'm

30-year-old Danish, stand-up comedian, podcaster, I guess fat activist, now weirdly author.

Amazing. When are you allowed to co-exist over an author? I think I'm a... I'm held the book in my hand.

I'm after. I claim that. Yeah, cool guy. Yeah, actually that was something I was going to ask you

because I listened on your app, so I would just go to the other day and you're like, I don't know

if I identify as a woman anymore. Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'm... I don't know what... All I know

for certain is that I'm not a woman. I think I'm still... I've known... like she feels fine. Right,

they feel fine. He feels fine. It's just the word woman, I think, woman lady girl. That feels

wrong. It feels as right to me as man would feel. Right. For myself and man to come and

other woman that would equally feel like that wasn't true. So I think it's... I guess there's

non-binary, possibly genderqueer. Not really sure what the word is. You know what it is about the

word that makes you feel uncomfortable? Like, what... is it any particular like attribute that you

think, oh, that's just not me? I think it's just always felt wrong. My mom never referred to

us as women or girls. It was never a thing, you know. Right. It was never any like, you're a girl,

sit like this, do like that. It was always just... We're always just people. So the second

is that it stand up when I was 21. Suddenly woman was such a huge part of everything. Oh, you're

the first woman. You're a woman comedian. And it always just felt wrong. But I think I just kind

of pushed it away and I was like, I guess this is just how most people feel. Yeah.

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