Hey, lovers, you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast where we learn about love by listening to our guest's personal shares so that we can come together to make the world a sexier place.

Our guest today is a 50-year-old Jewish, ethically non-monogamous, demisexual woman who is happily

married and has been with her husband for 30 years.

They consider themselves to be in a female-led relationship, although both are sexually

dominant and have kitchen table polydynamics that include life partners considered family,

and she is currently open to adding an AFAB partner,

assigned female at birth for anyone who does not know.

She is into so many things, almost everything on the D dominant side of the slash,

using BDSM as a healing modality and group play.

A lifestyle dom for over 25 years, she has taken her vast experience, artistry, and coaching

skills into her work as a pro-dom for the last five years, specializing in thoughtful,

nurturing experiences, and is particularly passionate about parenting as a kingster,

as she and her husband are out to their kids about their non-conventional life. A native

Californian who lives in Los Angeles, welcome Miss Butter. Hello. I am so excited to have you

here because we have met a few times in person and this has been, shall we say a long time

in coming. So could you pretty please start out

by telling us, if you had to rate yourself today on a sexual shamel meter with 10 being so

full of shame and zero being like, I don't know what you're talking about shame, tell us where you

fall and tell us what your shamel coaster has looked like throughout the years if it's having

these squiggles, loops, ups or downs.

Well, today I'm like a negative 10.

Yeah.

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