288 | Poly Pro & Lifestyle Dominatrix: Miss Butter’s Sex Stories
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 951 Ratings
🗓️ 17 December 2024
⏱️ 89 minutes
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Summary
BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.
📈 STATS | 50 demisexual Jewish woman, she/her pronouns, ENM, married in a relationship of 30 years, Los Angeles based, into: Dominance, BDSM, group play, lifestyle Domination.
00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again
06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter
10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners
15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys
22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true
24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out session
28:47 What it’s like to be a Domme married to a Dom in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)
34:55 Finding fellow lifestyle FemmeDommes and creating safety for male submissives
39:44 Priorities in polyamory, community, and playing without her husband
48:40 Studying BDSM formally and expanding play into work as a ProDomme
54:10 Building Lifestyle relationships with clients
58:26 Creating physical fantasy spaces, meeting desires in surprising ways, and intentional healing
1:05:35 Aftercare, favorite toys, and synchronized heartbeats
1:09:36 Parenting while kinky and the positive effect of openness to questions
1:16:30 Coming out as a ProDomme to her kids
1:22:21 How she aspires to create community and spread ethical Dominance
1:24:46 Staying curious and how to find your “real true Domme”
🤩 TOPICS | Aftercare rituals, ADHD and sexuality, affirming dominance, age of first sexual experiences, alternative relationship models, artistic BDSM scenes, authentic connection, authority exchange, boundary setting, caregiving dominance, client relationships, creative roleplay, demi-sexual identity, ethical kink, ethical parenting, ethical polyamory, evolving sexuality, female-led marriage, feminist dominance, fetish education, finding femme Doms, fluid bonding conversations, group play, hairbrush spanking, healing through kink, household power exchange, impact play, kink coaching, kink community building, kink negotiation, kink safety, latex fantasies, lifestyle dominance, lifestyle Domme stories, love and trust in polyamory, mindful kink, nurturing dominance, open marriage, orgasm control, parenting and sexuality, poly dynamics, poly family structure, poly lessons, power exchange philosophy, professional Domme work, ProDomme journey, psychological dominance, sensual creativity, sensory exploration, sex-positive parenting, sexual agency, sexual boundaries, sexual healing, sexual neurodivergence, sexual openness, sexual storytelling, spanking scenes, submissive coaching, submissive empowerment, submissive rights, suspension play, threesomes with female partners, trauma healing through BDSM, trust in dominance, vanilla curiosity, vulnerability in kink, warrior latex rituals, women in dominance, working with submissives, worship scenes.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, lovers, you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast where we learn about love by listening to our guest's personal shares so that we can come together to make the world a sexier place. |
| 0:16.0 | Our guest today is a 50-year-old Jewish, ethically non-monogamous, demisexual woman who is happily |
| 0:21.7 | married and has been with her husband for 30 years. |
| 0:25.5 | They consider themselves to be in a female-led relationship, although both are sexually |
| 0:30.2 | dominant and have kitchen table polydynamics that include life partners considered family, |
| 0:35.7 | and she is currently open to adding an AFAB partner, |
| 0:39.7 | assigned female at birth for anyone who does not know. |
| 0:42.8 | She is into so many things, almost everything on the D dominant side of the slash, |
| 0:48.2 | using BDSM as a healing modality and group play. |
| 0:51.7 | A lifestyle dom for over 25 years, she has taken her vast experience, artistry, and coaching |
| 0:57.0 | skills into her work as a pro-dom for the last five years, specializing in thoughtful, |
| 1:02.2 | nurturing experiences, and is particularly passionate about parenting as a kingster, |
| 1:07.3 | as she and her husband are out to their kids about their non-conventional life. A native |
| 1:12.1 | Californian who lives in Los Angeles, welcome Miss Butter. Hello. I am so excited to have you |
| 1:21.0 | here because we have met a few times in person and this has been, shall we say a long time |
| 1:25.6 | in coming. So could you pretty please start out |
| 1:29.2 | by telling us, if you had to rate yourself today on a sexual shamel meter with 10 being so |
| 1:34.7 | full of shame and zero being like, I don't know what you're talking about shame, tell us where you |
| 1:39.7 | fall and tell us what your shamel coaster has looked like throughout the years if it's having |
| 1:43.4 | these squiggles, loops, ups or downs. |
| 1:46.3 | Well, today I'm like a negative 10. |
| 1:48.9 | Yeah. |
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