Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is

Case Kenny at Case.Cenny on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I

create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping you be the person you're meant to be

leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go.

All right welcome to episode 287. Hello my friend welcome to a fresh new episode

of new mindset who this and thank you so much for listening and special thank you to anyone

who's listening for the first time after seeing me on Good Morning America last week. That was

such a cool experience for me and they were kind enough to have me on and have a little chat on

there what you need to know segment. That was very cool so thank you if you watch that. I also I

posted the full interview on my Instagram feed if you want to check it out but if you're listening

to the podcast for the first time after seeing me there welcome welcome to the show. Today I have

an episode in mind I want to do that's around this idea that I think so many people have said at

one point or another in regard to someone they're dating or someone they're considering dating.

It's a sound bite it's like a sound bite cliche it's the sound bite of I can change him

I can change him or I can change her definitely goes both ways this idea that you can

date someone you can be with someone you can have this amazing connection with someone but

you know there's something pretty glaring about them a red flag that needs to change in order

for the relationship to work but instead of you know working on it and then moving on you someone

you maybe you maybe a friend you've heard this they they opt for the I can change them mindset

which means that you can be the one that finally changes them that they'll finally change for you

and so you throw yourself even further into that relationship hoping that you'll change them

and then you'll get the outcome you're looking for maybe that's familiar to you I've gotten so

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