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The Lavendaire Lifestyle

281: Vex King: Transforming Pain into Purpose & Finding Self Love

The Lavendaire Lifestyle

Aileen Xu

Self-help, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Health & Fitness, How To, Mental Health, Education

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 June 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

What if the love you’re searching for has been within you all along? In this episode, Vex King shares his journey of healing from trauma, embracing self-love, and turning pain into purpose. We explore the deeper meaning of love, the difference between relationships and true inner connection, and how to manifest an aligned life. Tune in to remember your wholeness—and feel inspired to come home to yourself.

Vex King is the Number 1 Sunday Times bestselling author of Good Vibes Good Life and Healing is the New High, amongst other books and journals. As a child and young adult, he experienced many challenges: his father died when he was just a baby, his family were often homeless, and he grew up in troubled neighbourhoods where he regularly experienced violence and racism. Despite this, Vex successfully turned his whole life around and is now leading a revolution for the next generation of spiritual seekers.

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TIMESTAMPS

2:10 – Vex’s story
16:52 – The writing process
21:32 – Keys to Vex's success
27:05 – Tips for manifesting
32:19 – New book
39:27 – Practicing self-love in relationships
45:30 – Healing from trauma: What worked for Vex
53:00 – Vex’s creative process
58:08 – Final message

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0:00.0

When you realize that you are the wholeness that you might be seeking through someone else,

0:05.1

all your decisions, all your actions, everything changes.

0:07.8

You're no longer looking for someone to fix some part of you or to fulfill a void because

0:13.0

you realize that wholeness already exists within you.

0:19.0

Welcome to The Lavenderet Lifestyle, the podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design.

0:24.8

My name's Eileen and I'm here to guide you to shine as your brightest self and create your

0:29.3

dream life.

0:30.5

We all have a light within and the power to create a life we love.

0:34.8

Every Sunday, we'll share thoughtful conversations exploring how we can build a better

0:38.3

future for ourselves and our world. Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece. Hello, my loves,

0:47.1

welcome back to the Lavender Lifestyle Podcast. It's Eileen. In today's episode, we share a story of

0:52.9

overcoming adversity and embracing self-love, healing, and the connection to spirit.

0:58.9

I'm super excited to introduce today's guest, Vex King.

1:02.9

Vex King is the number one Sunday Times bestselling author of Good Vives, Good Life, and Healing is the new high, amongst other books and journals.

1:12.0

As a child and young adult, he experienced many challenges.

1:15.4

His father died when he was just a baby.

1:17.7

His family were often homeless, and he grew up in troubled neighborhoods where he regularly

1:21.9

experienced violence and racism.

1:24.5

Despite this, Vec successfully turned his whole life around and is now leading a revolution

1:29.4

for the next generation of spiritual seekers. Beyond his literary prowess, Vex's influence

1:34.4

extends to coaching some of the biggest icons around, from world-class athletes and actors to musicians.

1:40.5

As a major voice in the world of personal development, Vex shares deep spiritual knowledge in a way that's easy to understand with stories from his own life, great inspirational quotes, and practical solutions.

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