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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

28: Is Love Still Possible in 2020?

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2020

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

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This episode is an honest look at what the near future of dating could look like for you if you’re single right now.

Even as parts of the world open up again, a vaccine appears to be at least 8-12 months away. That means that for about another year, there will be some significant implications for our dating lives.

Is it safe to go out on dates in the coming months? When should you meet up with someone you’ve been talking to? How do you deal with awkward moments like the first hello where you would normally hug each other? Is there an elegant way to communicate what level of contact you are comfortable with?

These are all questions I answer in this episode. At the beginning of COVID-19, I made a video outlining the immediate impact of this virus on our love lives. Consider this a round 2, but this time with a focus on the future of dating. A kind of “State of Our Unions” address for 2020, if you will.

I’d love to know your thoughts in the comments, and please share with anyone who is anxious or concerned with the future of their dating life.

There is reason for hope, my friend.

As ever, I’m thinking of you as we go through this together.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Oh my Lordy Lou listeners, is it time already for another episode of the Love Life podcast?

0:29.0

Well according to my watch it is, I am your host Stephen Hussie and today we are talking about the very future of Love itself.

0:41.0

It's no secret that we have been ushered in kicking and screaming into a new decade where the scourge of COVID-19 has changed the way we're thinking currently about work, about family, about friendship.

0:58.0

And of course about our romantic lives and lots of people are asking the question, what is this going to mean for me meeting someone and what risks can and should I take and how should I justify them and what kind of conversations am I going to have with a potential new partner and how is this going to change the future of monogamy or casual dating.

1:23.0

And so I'm going to jump to a clip of Matt talking on these big meaty issues. Before I do just tiny bits of housekeeping, you can of course subscribe to the podcast if you don't already.

1:37.0

If you'd like to brand new episodes a week tickling your ears, you can do that out on iTunes Spotify Stitcher, go subscribe and if you're feeling extra kind and generous, please leave us a lovely review on iTunes.

1:52.0

It does help people find the show and you can also email us on podcast at MatthewHassie.com with any of your comments, thoughts, musings, things you like about a particular artist.

2:06.0

You'd like about a particular episode, suggestions for questions to tackle on a future episode podcast at MatthewHassie.com, send your feedback our way.

2:18.0

And finally, some people I notice in the inbox, I am getting sometimes very detailed specific questions about people's own love lives and the scenarios they're facing.

2:32.0

Obviously, I am unable to rummage through the whole inbox and give long detailed answers to specific love life questions.

2:42.0

If you are interested in diving deeper with us and actually joining us for live sessions where we do exactly that kind of thing where we actually take people's specific scenarios or questions or issues they're struggling with in their own love life and try and tackle them step by step.

3:01.0

You can join our exclusive members area if you go to askmh.com, just go there, input your details, follow the path and you can start on your way to actually becoming one of our exclusive members and we have live webinars, we have specific sessions with different focus on whether it's meeting people or relationships or specific communication issues, people are facing, getting back within the air.

3:30.0

So that's askmh.com and you can go start on your way to becoming one of our exclusive members.

3:41.0

That is it from me, I'm going to hand over to the big guy himself MatthewHassie right now, I'll see you on the other side of the podcast.

3:50.0

So recently I was asked to do an interview where I was part of a panel with an anthropologist, an epidemiologist and then there was I, the love of aologist.

4:02.0

We were there to talk about the impact that all of this is going to have not just on dating and love now but on the future of dating.

4:10.0

The epidemiologist was asked what constitutes safe when we're out there dating right now and her answer's amounted to, there's no way to know that you're safe if you were to meet someone in person right now and that's going to be the case until we have a vaccine.

4:29.0

So on behalf of single people everywhere I volunteered the question, are you talking about us being celibate until there's a vaccine?

4:40.0

And she said well no you might be able to meet up with someone in person if you are able to really trust that that person hasn't been around lots of other people,

4:52.0

or hasn't been to any events, any gatherings, at that point maybe you might meet up with that person and be six feet apart, which then of course begs another question, which is what point do you decrease the distance from six feet to something more romantic.

5:09.0

We are now introduced aren't we to a different layer of complexity in dating as single people.

5:18.0

The complexity before was how do I discern someone's intentions? Do they want a relationship? Do they not? Are they looking for the same thing as me? Are they just looking to play around?

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