27: How To Make Anyone Like You Instantly

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 30 May 2020

⏱️ 15 minutes

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90% of people are making a mistake in the way they connect with other people without even realizing it.

See, ever since I was 13 and first picked up my Dad’s copy of the Dale Carnegie’s How To Win Friends And Influence People, I was fascinated with figuring what it is that allows certain people able to influence, attract, and be charismatic in the presence of others.

Over years of being on TV and radio, running a company with over 30 full-time staff, and speaking to audiences of thousands of people, I’ve learned some really important distinctions that make people certain people immediately compelling. I’ve also learned some major things people get wrong that must be avoided at all costs if you ever want to win people over… (more on that in the video) So here it is, my #1 secret to getting people hooked in the first 60 seconds…

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0:00.0	But when some guy comes up to you tonight out of nowhere and says, hey I'm Mark.
0:04.6	We're like, I don't care. Mark?
0:06.8	We don't care about the name until we care about the person.
0:11.1	Well listeners, as my brother Matthew so pointedly remarked in that opening intro, people
0:34.2	don't care about your name until they know what you actually have to offer them.
0:39.8	So let me assure you in today's little podcast you'll be learning some tantalising,
0:46.8	luring, fascinating conversation tips that are going to help you be more charming, charismatic,
0:54.0	likable, dare I say, in your everyday life.
0:57.4	But before we jump into the meat itself, I am Stephen Hussey, I am your host for today
1:05.2	and welcome to the Love Life podcast.
1:08.9	What are we doing here?
1:11.9	What is the situation?
1:13.2	We're coming up just to the very beginning of June very shortly and the tail end of spring
1:21.6	I guess.
1:22.6	Boy that's been one hell of a season.
1:27.0	Mostly spent indoors.
1:28.7	I don't think I've left my town for quite a while now.
1:35.4	I must say quite happily so at the moment I'm writing a lot.
1:40.4	I'm doing lots of podcasting and speaking and lots of Zoom calls of course.
1:46.8	I feel like many of us have become very well acquainted with Zoom over the last couple
1:52.6	of months and all the glories of video conferencing.
1:57.7	My Lord has there been a lot of that going on and we kind of work remotely a lot in our
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