Welcome back to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussie.

Last week I brought you an interview I did with Ed Milet in preparation for my book launch this year.

This week I am bringing you an important conversation I had on the Know Thyself podcast.

I think you're really going to enjoy this part of the conversation.

Check it out and I will speak to you at the end of the frameworks I really love in your book are the four levels of importance.

So can you walk us through the importance of chemistry to

compatibility and how what you feel like ultimately the most important thing is when we're choosing

who's going to be our team partner in this life? The reason I put together this model was because

I just kept seeing people valuing or I I should say, overvaluing the wrong

things. And when you overvalue the wrong things, you can get yourself into a world of pain.

So I said, okay, we need to give ourselves a new model for what's worth our time, what's worth our

energy, what's worth crying over.

The first level in these four levels is admiration.

There's just you, there's someone you're aware of that you think is impressive, charismatic,

attractive.

There's something about them.

You like their energy, their values, whatever. They may not even know you exist. You just have an

admiration for them. Obviously, in the four levels, it's not very important because there's nothing

there. There's just interest from our side. The second level is mutual attraction. That's where we have someone that we feel

connected to. They feel connected to us. There's attraction. There's chemistry. There's something

there that's mutual. It might be superficial or it might be deep, but there's a mutual

engagement. Now, that feels important to us because often we don't meet anyone we like.

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