I would encourage people to be careful with this because this can very easily fall into,

well my partner is just better at doing the dishes so they're just going to do it and I'm just no good at doing the dishes,

I'm just no good at taking out the trash, I'm just no good at making the bed in a

particular way because that's another toxic dynamic that could come up is kind of

the like either unintentional or sometimes intentionally not doing a task very well because then you won't be

asked to do it again. Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

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On this episode of the multi-amoryy podcast. We're not your mother. Just kidding, we

actually are. You're all our little babies. Now the topic for today is that

sometimes in relationships where two or more people live together,

one can get stuck doing the majority of the household tasks and emotional labor.

In other words, kind of being the archetypal mother role.

So today we're going to be talking about the unfair division of labor that sometimes

happens within households, how toxic that can really be to relationships, as well as some tips to

help change those patterns that cause this inequality to happen.

Yeah, I was thinking about this just because when I have been living with my partner and basically only seeing him for you know the last three months well we've been

social distancing and kind of staying inside here it's sort of seemed like

I've become very domestic and taken over many roles like doing the dishes every single day.

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