Now Sue Johnson, when she talks about the demon dialogues, she likens it to couples following the steps of a ballroom dance, where the music, and in this case the music being the content of the fight, the emotions that come up during the fight, that may change,

but the choreography, the steps to the ballroom dance are ultimately the same.

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On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast,

we're talking about fight choreography. No, unfortunately, we're not talking about fake punches and six stunts that people do on set.

We're actually talking about the destructive cycles and patterns that are easy to fall into with a partner when you're in conflict like these patterns that show up when you fight.

We'll be covering three of the most common patterns, how to recognize which fight choreography

shows up most frequently in your relationship, and then go over some steps to turn things

around and start solving conflict more productively.

So conflict, we love it. It's been a while since we've done an episode on conflict, I guess,

or do we talk about it all the time? It's hard to say.

What if we...

It does be a little Columbia.

Yeah, I think it's a mix of both.

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