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Hello and welcome back to the horny outside podcast. I'm your host, Jordan. Today we're talking about aftercare, what it is, what it looks like. It's not just for kinky BDSM couples. Yes. Yes, that's probably where you've heard about it. Much needed and appreciated. Essential, in my opinion. But for every couple, what could that look like

and why it's important? So there's that. I've got three, four listener questions and some

heavy hitters, finances and marriage, what that looks like when one person really struggles

to talk about money,

like the yin and yang of it all,

but then the how the hell do we move through this?

Do I need to make more money?

What if I don't make more money?

All the things.

A lot of couples, finances are a big point of contention, so let's talk about it.

And many other things.

So before we get into that, I want to have an uncomfortable conversation.

Let's try to make this not uncomfortable at all.

But we have to bring it up.

But I have to come from a place of neutrality, unfortunately.

It feels like I have to for some reason.

I guess I don't have to.

But that's the way it feels for me.

And if that changes, I'll let you know.

I don't know about you, but if you live in America and you're on social media or the news

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