273: Mother Daughter Relationships with Hilary Mae
Soberful
Veronica Valli & Chip Somers
4.8 • 611 Ratings
🗓️ 3 July 2024
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
The mother-daughter relationship is one of the most important and powerful relationships of our lives. But it can also be one of the hardest. From the unrealistic expectations placed on mothers to navigating when daughters change from children to adolescents to women. Daughters learn what being a woman is like from their mothers, and they may not necessarily want to be like their mothers. Hilary Mae is a therapist who specialises in the mother-daughter relationship and helps women navigate communication and healing. She discusses ways we can communicate with each other and how to listen to what our mother or daughter needs from us. A powerful conversation about complicated relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | I dreamt that you were twisting through seven suns of gold and the gypsy was insisting |
| 0:10.2 | that story must be told I came two in the morning but I took it as a warning That you might be a treasure |
| 0:21.8 | I could touch but never hold |
| 0:25.6 | Hey everybody and welcome to the Soap Before podcast |
| 0:30.4 | And I am joined today by Hilary May |
| 0:33.5 | Hi Hillary |
| 0:34.1 | Hi, Veronica. Nice to see you. |
| 0:36.9 | Nice to see you. Hillary is a therapist who |
| 0:40.4 | specializes in the mother-daughter relationship. And I just thought, oh, that sounds really |
| 0:46.6 | interesting for my audience because I have so many clients, Hillary, including myself, |
| 0:54.1 | who have very complicated relationships with |
| 0:58.7 | their mother. It is such an important and probably the most significant relationship of our life, |
| 1:06.0 | isn't it? It is. Why does it get so complicated? Well, I think most of us don't know how to have a healthy one |
| 1:13.9 | unless we're lucky enough to have had healthy mother-daughter relationships within our family. |
| 1:19.9 | No one really shows us how to do it, right? We learn from our mothers. So if we haven't seen it |
| 1:25.0 | or experienced it, we're just trying to do the opposite or we're pushing |
| 1:28.9 | them away. I think there really isn't enough just general knowledge about the mother-daughter |
| 1:34.8 | relationship and what we need from each other in order to feel loved. Can you say more about that? |
| 1:41.2 | What should a mother-daughter relationship look like ideally well i think |
| 1:46.0 | a place where we get it wrong is we expect i hear a lot from women you know like i want that |
| 1:51.6 | you know ideal mother-daughter relationship where we're best friends and we do everything together |
| 1:55.9 | and you know we have so much fun and we get along and you know we have everything uncommon and |
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