My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there.

Just to bring it out. This is what

compels me to compel them, and I will do it by whatever means necessary. Welcome to the Black

Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and resolve trauma

and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

Every episode, we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow

in your self-worth. I'm Sheena LaShea, Love Edition Coach and Trauma Specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls' Heal.

I am so excited to be with you today.

Today we are talking about three ways to cope when they no longer care.

So this topic came up for me because right now on TikTok, I have a lot of people who are talking about a few

videos that I've shared about not only love avoidance, but what happens is when you go into no

contact. So I did a video that was, how does the person feel when you are going into no contact?

You know, I'm talking about whether or not they care or not, whether

or not what you're doing affects them or not.

You know, a lot of people who are having followed questions about that.

And it just got me to thinking about the pain that happens when you really find out that even

when you're pulling back emotionally, even when you are emotionally hurt, you're expressing what you need.

Maybe you are actually in a period of no contact, not just that you are pulling back emotionally

and no longer investing in a initiating connection, but that you're actually not in contact.

But when you find out or see that they don't care how painful that it is and how is not as simple as just

distracting yourself and the things that come up for you, the abandonment wounds, the rejection

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