265. A Good Woman Self Sacrifices Id Rather Be A Goddess
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Olanikee Osibowale
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🗓️ 31 October 2025
⏱️ 4 minutes
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In this episode, I describe why I would rather be a goddess than a good woman. Watch this episode HERE.
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| 0:00.0 | I refuse to be a woman. |
| 0:01.5 | Self-sacrifices to be seen as a good woman. |
| 0:04.0 | I don't want to be a good woman, period point blank. |
| 0:06.4 | I want to be a goddess. |
| 0:21.8 | I am a goddess. To be seen as a good woman in society, it means that you are self-sacrificing. It means that you are giving your last to be a good mother. You are giving your last to be a good wife. and for me I don't abide by that standard of womanhood for me to be a woman to be a goddess wife. And for me, I don't abide by that standard of womanhood. For me to be a woman |
| 0:23.5 | to be a goddess in this world, it's not about self-sacrificing. It's about adding more of what I can |
| 0:30.1 | do to make myself happy. It's about understanding what I like. It's about understanding what |
| 0:35.8 | brings me joy. It's about actively also planning for my joy. It's about understanding what brings me joy. It's about actively also planning for |
| 0:39.1 | my joy. It's about speaking my truth, being my authentic self, and a lot of times that's not |
| 0:47.1 | self-sacrificing. I refuse to be a woman that self-sacrifices to be seen as a good woman. |
| 0:53.1 | If it's to be seen as a good woman to self-sacrifice, then I don't want to be a good woman. Period. Point blank. I want to be a goddess. I am a goddess. I want to be able to be happy in life. I want to be able to define what my own happiness is. I want to be a good partner, a good lover, a good sister. but I most of all want to be a good me. You know, I want to be a good partner a good lover a good sister but I most of all want to be a good me you know I want to be a good |
| 1:14.8 | me I want to be a good me to myself and so in order for me to give to other people that doesn't look |
| 1:20.2 | like self-sacrificing that looks like how am I feeling in this moment what am I able to give now if you |
| 1:26.3 | are a woman out there that finds yourself |
| 1:28.0 | self-sacrificing, giving your last, and you always feel like you're the last one to give to |
| 1:33.8 | yourself, you always feel like nobody's pouring back into you. You're like, oh my God, so many |
| 1:38.6 | people always take, take, take for me, when am I going to be the one being poured into? You |
| 1:43.1 | have to start giving to yourself. You have to start setting time aside for yourself to pour into yourself you have to |
| 1:48.9 | start getting your dessert for yourself you have to start taking yourself out on days getting |
| 1:52.9 | yourself flowers right showing yourself that you actually give a fuck about yourself right if you |
| 1:58.0 | feel like you are always the one pouring into others and nobody's pouring into you |
| 2:02.4 | how are you taking care of yourself how are you thinking about your own happiness your own joy |
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