264: MARRIAGE THROUGH YOUR SPOUSE’S EYES

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2015

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Looking at the world, especially your marriage, from only your point of view is short sighted. By doing this... you are only taking your feelings, wants and desires into account. Over time this lack of perspective can lead to little consideration from the perspective of your spouse. What they may be going through, how the world looks to them, what they are struggling with. It's time to have some introspection time about being able to see what your marriage looks like from your spouse's eyes. Here’s the thing. Many of us are horrible at seeing things from another’s point of view. We are inherently selfish and use our perceptions, our point of view as the point of view that we focus on...this can lead to a short sighted view of your spouse. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about looking at your marriage through your spouse’s eyes, not just through your own narrow lens. EPISODE SPONSOR | He Zigs, She Zags Your marriage can be better than ever... With effective communication you will… Stop feeling angry and frustrated with your spouse (and avoid this affecting other areas of your life), develop lasting solutions for your marriage so you can get through anything together, restore honesty, openness and transparency with each other so you can live together with love and trust, but most importantly... create the “happily ever after” that you both deserve. Grab He Zigs, She Zags today and get started! Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone.
0:05.7	Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:11.2	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife,
0:14.5	Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex,
0:21.1	love, and commitment.
0:23.0	Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663.
0:27.2	That's 858, 876, 5663. In today's show, we talk about looking at your marriage through your spouse's eyes, not
0:40.4	just through your own narrow lens.
0:43.0	An author Daniel H. Pink says this.
0:45.0	He goes, Empathy is about standing in someone else's shoes
0:49.0	feeling with his or her heart, seeing with his or her eyes. Not only is empathy hard to outsource and automate, but
0:57.1	it makes the world a better place. And we're going to be talking a lot today
1:00.6	about empathy and being able to see your marriage through your spouse's eyes.
1:04.4	And like Tony said, not just your own narrow lens.
1:07.0	And as we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with our hug,
1:10.3	this week's hug is brought to you by Hezig She Zags get your communication on the same path.
1:16.0	Your marriage can be better than ever.
1:18.6	With effective communication, you'll stop feeling angry and frustrated with your spouse and avoid this affecting
1:24.4	other areas of your life. Develop lasting solutions for your marriage so you can
1:28.4	get through anything together. Restore honesty, openness, and transparency with each other so you can live together with love and trust.
1:35.0	But most importantly, create the happily ever after that you both deserve.
1:40.0	Learn more at hezig- she zags.com. This message starts off with hope you are doing
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