262. What Dating a Provider ACTUALLY Means
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 14 November 2024
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
This is the LAST EPISODE of 2024! Can you believe it? brb be back Jan 2025 habibti!
In this episode we chat:
- My thoughts on the conversation around "gold diggers" in dating when it comes to women dating providers
- Why I believe ONLY dating a man for his money (as in NOT CARING about him, only caring about what is in his bank) is actually a form of LACK mindset in dating
- The bible's take on men who do NOT provide
- How ONLY dating a man for his money can actually be a symptom of an inability to connect emotionally with men.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome back to Self-Love Fix Podcast. My name is Beatrice and I know what you're thinking. |
| 0:06.6 | Unless you're new, I know what you're thinking. Where have you been? Where have, okay, we're not |
| 0:11.9 | going to say, we're not going to do it. But I know what you're thinking. You're probably |
| 0:16.9 | side-eyeing me. Potentially mean mugging me. me I can feel I can almost feel the mugging |
| 0:24.3 | no I'm joking you're probably if anything hopefully I'm hoping you're like yay she's finally back |
| 0:28.2 | she hasn't abandoned us I hate doing that to you I hate when I don't give a warning um I listen |
| 0:35.4 | that's my 20 20 25 goal is to always give warnings I will admit this to you and then we'll |
| 0:42.3 | get into today's episode podcast episode I was a bridesmaid for my cousins beautiful wedding out in |
| 0:50.8 | Mexico and I'll just be honest I did not plan my time accordingly. Um, the holidays, |
| 0:57.8 | it always happens when the holidays creep around whenever it hits November. Listen, it always |
| 1:04.2 | happens like this. So, or like the end of October pushing November, I'm going to do better. But no, |
| 1:09.7 | I just wanted to make sure everything really came |
| 1:12.4 | together for her wedding. And I wanted to really live up to my bridesmaid title. I think this is the |
| 1:19.9 | second time I've been a bridesmaid, but I was a lot younger. So this is like my first real adult |
| 1:24.0 | bridesmaid experience. So yeah, I did not plan myself accordingly. When it came to that |
| 1:29.4 | and other life events, I had pop up. But I'm here. I'm here. I'm here. I'm here. And today, look, |
| 1:36.8 | I think it was great that I had those two weeks because I'm back and I'm better. I'm back and |
| 1:41.5 | I'm better. And we're going to talk about the very hot topic |
| 1:45.0 | in dating right now where, you know, we've got extremes. We've got extremes of views when it comes |
| 1:53.3 | to men being providers. You know what's so interesting. I think you're going to find this |
| 1:58.3 | episode refreshing, by the way, no matter what you believe about |
| 2:01.9 | providership or what you think or how you want your own relationship to go or how your own |
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