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The SelfWork Podcast

261 SelfWork: Keeping On Keeping On:: A Conversation with Author and Widow Leslie Streeter

The SelfWork Podcast

Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD

Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 3 December 2021

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

 

As a therapist, I’ve been honored by many to try to help them work through their grief. And it can be raw,  cutting off someone’s ability to breathe deeply or feel like they’re even breathing at all. Or want to. But when I met met Leslie Streeter, I knew I had to have her on SelfWork. Her story, told with candor, humor and grit, is about her husband Scott's death when suddenly she was thrust into being a single mom while trying to cope with life and grief.

Leslie Gray Streeter is an author, veteran journalist and speaker. whose memoir “Black Widow,” was published in March 2020 by Little, Brown and Company. Until recently, she was the longtime entertainment and lifestyle columnist and writer for the Palm Beach Post. A native of Baltimore, Md and a University of Maryland graduate, she and her work have been featured in The Washington Post, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution, The Seattle Times, The Atlantic, The Today show, SiriusXM, O, The Oprah Magazine and more. She lives with her son Brooks and her mother Tina in her hometown of Baltimore, which she moved back to last summer. She’s a slow runner, an amateur vegan cook and a true crime and “Law and Order” enthusiast.

You can see her light and spirit in her Today Show interview. This certainly wasn't the life that she could've possibly imagined. And yet, she's made it work. And she's written a book that makes her husband come alive.

Why am I offering this conversation now? Because in entering the holiday season, not only am I aware of millions of people around the world, and almost 800,000 people here in the US who have died from Covid. So each one of those people had families and friends, coworkers and neighbors who are grieving their absence. I wanted to offer to them the story of someone who got through – who has moved forward with her grief.

So in this episode of SelfWork, sponsored by BetterHelp, it's my honor to introduce you to Leslie Streeter.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Selfwork, and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

0:14.1

At Selfwork, we'll discuss psychological and emotional issues common in today's world

0:19.0

and what to do about them.

0:20.4

I'm Dr. Margaret, and Selfwork is a podcast dedicated to you taking just a few minutes today

0:26.2

for your own Selfwork.

0:29.8

Hello, and welcome to Selfwork.

0:31.7

I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

0:33.0

I'm a clinical psychologist out of fateful Arkansas, and I wanted to extend the walls

0:38.0

of my practice five years ago now, so I started Selfwork.

0:42.5

I want to reach out to those of you who are already very interested in psychological

0:46.2

or emotional issues, maybe you're in therapy, to those of you who might just have been diagnosed

0:51.4

with something and you're looking for answers, or you're having a relationship problem that's

0:56.8

just unsettling and won't seem to resolve itself.

1:01.0

But also to a third group who might tell your friends off therapy, and never do that,

1:06.9

but you're just interested enough or unhappy enough to listen into Selfwork.

1:11.7

Welcome, welcome to all of you.

1:14.3

As a therapist, I've been honored by many to try to help them work through their grief,

1:19.1

and grief can be raw, it can cut off your ability to breathe deeply or feel like you're

1:23.8

even breathing at all, or that you want to. But when I met Leslie Streeter, I knew I had to

1:29.8

have her own Selfwork. She has such important things to say about grief, things that come from

1:35.7

the sudden death of her husband. Who is she? Leslie Grace Streeter is an author, veteran journalist,

1:42.4

and speaker. Her memoir Black Widow was published in March 2020, until fairly recently, in fact,

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