26. The Negging One
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast
Ali Jackson
3.9 • 712 Ratings
🗓️ 16 August 2021
⏱️ 70 minutes
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Summary
Ali & Roark think you’ll enjoy this podcast only if you’re smart, cool, and can hold a conversation. Did that statement make alarm bells go off? It should, because it’s an example of negging! (And to be clear, we would never say that for real, we love you all!) This week’s topic is negging: the back-handed compliment aka an insult that unfortunately permeates dating. But first, Ali & Roark start the episode with their updates – including an epic phone-throwing moment on Roark’s part. Next, they recap the insanity of FBoy Island episodes 4 through 6. Finally, they talk about all the ways negging can appear in dating – from subtle to blatant and from dating profile to within a long-term relationship – and how to be aware of it and avoid those who do it.
Timestamps: FBoy Island recap begins at around 23:00; Topic Talk begins at around 40:45.
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| 0:00.0 | because I said fuck to my friend when I realized I didn't know what I was going to say next on the text. |
| 0:07.4 | No. |
| 0:09.2 | But did you know, did you realize? |
| 0:11.1 | Did you send it? |
| 0:13.3 | Yes. Hello and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Haight the podcast. I'm Allie, back with my co-host, Rourke. How is it going? |
| 0:34.1 | I have a story to tell this week, Allie. |
| 0:39.1 | I am excited. |
| 0:40.7 | I think it makes the most sense because everything pretty much stems from this Mexico trip. |
| 0:46.0 | Great. |
| 0:46.7 | So I think I just need to like start there and end there. |
| 0:49.4 | I'm ready. |
| 0:50.3 | So last Monday when we recorded, I received the news that I would not be receiving my passport. |
| 0:56.8 | Right. |
| 0:57.3 | They were wrong. |
| 0:58.4 | I received my passport. |
| 1:00.6 | Praise be. |
| 1:01.5 | Great news. |
| 1:02.9 | So I had, I was originally supposed to fly on a Wednesday. |
| 1:06.6 | I had just to buy myself a little more time, I had moved my flight preemptively to Friday. |
| 1:14.1 | And so I was able to, I got my passport at 10.30 a.m. on Wednesday. So I actually would have |
| 1:21.0 | missed my flight Wednesday regardless. So it all, it worked out. But I flew Friday. |
| 1:26.6 | When I learned four weeks ago that my passport, I just want to say, like, we had a great |
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