Welcome to Four Play Radio Sex Therapy with Sex Ther therapist Lori Watson and couple therapist

Dr Adam Matthews. Today we're going to talk about technically a Manage

a Whatever do we mean about worry? Oh, we know we're talking about couples, so we're not going to be suggesting menage

at once.

But what is this? This is something that I think is so timely. This is your pet pee. This is my pet pee, then I'm going to have you. You're going to talk me off of leg cheer a little bit probably. Okay.

Because I think I'm on the opposite side of you, just a little bit. Okay well we can get into that it is

timely and it is so relevant to what is happening now but it is the

Manage Atwa that we're talking about is you, your partner, and your device, your iPad, your phone, your phone, your computer.

Not all devices, but not all, not all devices.

But the digital ones but the digital ones the digital ones right and that they are coming

in between you and your spouse and that you're having you have a relationship with your phone.

Right. And let's just admit it, we all do, we're not even guilt on anybody here.

I know, you know, I feel a little anxious just having my phone outside this door.

Not being able to access it during the podcast is like, oh my gosh, you know, I'm going to live for a half an hour.

Yeah, and that, I mean, and this is like is like we didn't neither one of us grew up with these things but they

know and so imagine like this is becoming a huge

security blanket. The next generation like it's not going it's going to be even worse.

They're just going to have chips in their head.

Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah.

And so I think it is, especially as it relates to sex, like, and relationships

like this is this is becoming a huge issue it is a huge issue I mean I have patients who come in and will

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