Hello, hello, hello, my gorgeous human. Thank you so much for jumping on to listen to

this podcast today, being her. I am Marguerite Nazarenko. Let's discuss the things that

you should not be doing for your man. And there is many layers to this. There is the

layer of mothering that is going to absolutely destroy your relationship because he is not

a surrogate son to you. I know news. It is breaking news. He is not an often child who

you have decided to re-home. He is already someone else's son who has been raised or one

should hope so in whatever way that was. And it's not your duty to do so. But this episode

is going to be more so about what you should not do for your man in a relationship. And

it's very, very important to discuss both the mothering piece and the pick me girl piece.

Are both. Well, the mothering piece is very much something I like to talk about. Well,

the pick me piece is very much something that is talked about in modern culture and modern

conversation that basically the pick me is a girl who will do anything and say anything

just for the guy to pick her. And I suppose point number one would address exactly this.

What you do not owe in a relationship for your man is to change the fiber, the innate fiber

of your being. If you are someone, a cloth made of wool, the new main wool, and if you're

silk, your main silk. And there is a piece here that needs to be discussed in terms of how

much should one change. Your relationship is about compromise, isn't it? After all, ladies,

I suppose it is, but it is not a compromise as a deficit to your actual intricate beingness

because you will deplete into nothingness. However, also from the other point of view,

one might say, isn't the coming together of two people, something that facilitates the

two of you ironing out the parts of you that are less desirable as it were, isn't the

conglomerate of the two of you coming together designed to create something better. And

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