0:00.0	Hello, hello, my gorgeous wonders. Today I want to talk about seven rules, seven ideas,
0:13.7	seven steps about meeting. The one, the guy, the one you're going to have a family with
0:19.3	the relationship with, you know, the whole Shebang. And I want to start with number one,
0:24.6	because it's a very important one. The first and foremost thing you need to concentrate
0:29.6	on or not concentrate on is your expectations and your ideas that this person, every guy,
0:37.2	every Tom Dick and Harry, is the one with the potential, because you are doing something that
0:42.7	is actually at a detriment to your progress. When you are looking at every guy through roast
0:48.2	into the glasses, through the husband filter, through the long-term relationship filter, as it
0:54.5	were, you are not actually seeing the reality of him. Not only are you not seeing the reality
0:59.9	of him, so you cannot properly evaluate whether this is the person for you, you are also giving
1:05.6	off an energy and desperate energy. That's a universal energy that nobody wants. Nobody wants a
1:11.9	desperate energy. It is just not becoming of anybody. It doesn't suit anybody in this world.
1:17.9	And when you're acting that way, you start to put on that person all these expectations that are
1:23.4	actually going to put the poor guy off. So if he was the one, you are now acting neurotic,
1:28.8	psychotic and delusional, having expectations of him that are husband's status. You are
1:34.4	expecting him to contact you constantly when you've only met him one day. You're expecting him
1:40.0	to constantly compliment you. Look at you in the eyes, read you sonnets, love poems, whatever
1:45.8	it is that you're constantly wanting from him. That is your expectation. Do you think that looks
1:50.1	attractive in anybody's eyes? Even in a friendship that's not attractive. Have you ever had a
1:55.1	girlfriend who gets butt hurt if you don't reply to her straight away if you have all these
2:00.4	expectations? It's about matching expectations. When somebody is your husband and they haven't
2:05.1	replied to you what time they're coming home, that's a problem. That's your husband. If that person
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