I'm scared. I don't trust you. Dan, do you agree with that?

100% from the very beginning there was a lot of judgment and criticism saying things like

you don't work, you don't do anything like things like that. In the meantime,

throughout our whole relationship, I've been making more money than her.

I was so angry. I was like, this is a white guy who is like 50. He said he wanted a family.

Like, I'm here with him and he still doesn't seem to have a plan to make that family happen.

He's very lucky that I'm with him right now.

I just wish that she would say, like, babe, I love you and I accept you the way you are.

And you don't have to prove anything to me.

How do you create a life together if your partner doesn't trust you?

And what do you do if one partner is anxious about money and the other retreats

whenever the topic is brought up? Dan and Mira have been together for five years.

She's 36, he's 43. And for the last three years, they've been living together,

but they still keep their finances separate. Now I sat down with Dan and Mira to initially

discuss something that seems pretty mundane. Dan had applied for an extension to his taxes this

year and Mira is uncomfortable that he still hasn't done it. But here's the pattern in today's

conversation. It goes a lot deeper than a tax return. She feels anxious about money. He feels

judged. She says she wants clarity. He says, we've already talked about this.

You're going to hear that Mira's history of questioning Dan started way, way back on their first

date. You see, when they met, she couldn't understand how he was able to make a living from

DJing instead of, as she put it, having a real job. Mira and Dan are from different cultural

backgrounds. And as you listen today, I think you're going to be able to spot some of those

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