258. De-centering Men- The Foundations
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 3 October 2024
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
In this episode we chat:
- Taking men off the pedestal for both the single girlies + relationship girlies
- Ways women pedestal men- which is actually a form of idolatry!!
- My #1 way to de-center men
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome back to the Self-Luffix podcast. My name is Beatrice and I'm your host. |
| 0:06.0 | Happy October. It's fall. It's getting a little cold, well not up here in Northern California, it's still warm, but it's about |
| 0:16.6 | to get colder traditionally. |
| 0:19.9 | So I feel this episode that I have for you today on Decentering Men 101 is timely. |
| 0:28.1 | It's timely because you know what happens when it gets cold. |
| 0:31.3 | We start feeling like, oh, you know, it gets colder. |
| 0:34.1 | Everybody starts going inside. |
| 0:35.9 | Everybody starts going inside. |
| 0:37.6 | And then it's like, you might start, what's the word? |
| 0:41.8 | It's almost like people feel a certain urgency with getting into |
| 0:46.3 | relationship. By the way, this episode is for both my singles, my single |
| 0:50.6 | girlies and those in a relationship because decentering men is for everybody |
| 0:54.7 | and I think this episode is going to be a lot different than you expect. |
| 0:59.2 | This is a positive toned episode. |
| 1:01.4 | This is not about bashing men. You know we love men over here. |
| 1:04.4 | Not the place, but we love the men over here. Anyways, I distracted myself. |
| 1:08.4 | But yeah, people tend to feel an urgency with the fall winter season, so I thought this was very timely so decentering or |
| 1:16.0 | urgency whether it's if you're single and getting into some sort of a |
| 1:21.3 | commitment or if you're in a commitment and moving to the next step, you know, |
| 1:26.0 | marriage or whatever. |
| 1:27.0 | So let's, well not or whatever, uh, marriage, okay, let's get into the episode. This episode is kind of ironic |
| 1:36.4 | because for most of my life I sip the Kool-Aid around. Men are just the |
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