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The Jordan Harbinger Show

257: Overcoming Accidental Accomplice to Fraud | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Science, Business

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2019

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

You were recently and unknowingly an accomplice to fraud and credit card theft. You're a freelancer with a client who frequently used your services; you built trust, and then he asked you to transfer some money for him as a paid favor. Your poor judgment, kindness, and greed led to where you are now. Now the real credit card owners are issuing chargebacks, which are draining your account, and you don't have their money because you sent the money to someone else. What do you do? We'll try to answer this and more on this Feedback Friday!

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  • Because you're in the entertainment industry, you've been getting nipped and tucked for years and you look much younger than your time on earth would indicate. Is it imperative that you tell your new significant other about your cosmetic procedures?
  • Your future in-laws seem to be in a financially abusive relationship — with one taking more than their fair share from the other — to the point that you hope they divorce. Are you out of line by wishing for this?
  • What do you do when a friend, colleague, family member, or loved one seems to be losing their marbles before your very eyes?
  • You've been growing your network with great success over the past few years, which is awesome. What's not so awesome is worrying about how to balance the time you spend with these connections as your network grows. How can you keep quality job one in this case?
  • Even when you know a recent breakup was for the right reasons, it's hard not to ruminate over where they are, who they could be with, what they're thinking, if they are thinking of you, and whether they'll ever return one day. How can you move on?
  • You've legally adopted your wife's 16-year-old, but he's troubled. How do you get him to see the errors of his ways? How do you look at him without wanting to snap at him? How do you lead him to want to better himself, grow, and not just do the minimum?
  • You're a 16-year-old, and your parents have strange beliefs. They make you eat weird things, they don't let you have social media or watch TV, and they don't let you go anywhere. It's hard to make friends in such a controlled environment because everyone thinks you're the odd one,...

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger, and I'm here with producer

0:07.6

Jason DeFilippo. On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills

0:12.3

of the world's most brilliant and interesting people, and turn their wisdom into practical

0:16.5

advice that you can use to impact your own life and those around you. This week we had

0:21.3

Tommy Caldwell. He climbed the Dawn Wall. So the Dawn Wall is El Capitan in Yosemite.

0:27.5

He took him six years, not of course in one stretch, but he found all of this is basically

0:32.8

a flat frickin mountain, okay? Like a flat surface, and he's grabbing on to like credit card

0:39.8

thin slices of rock and he climbed the whole thing. It's just unbelievable. Took him weeks

0:45.2

to do it. Nobody had ever done it. Just an incredible guy. Super interesting. And he

0:49.6

had cut off a finger before he was kidnapped one time, not on the Dawn Wall of course,

0:53.5

while rock climbing. He has stories for days and he's just a really nice guy. I really

0:58.3

enjoyed my conversation with him. We also had Malcolm Gladwell who if you haven't heard

1:03.5

of him, what rock are you living under? He's an amazing author. He's been on my interview

1:08.1

wish list for I don't know 10 years or something now. He gave great insight to how humans

1:13.3

think, make mistakes with cognitive bias and other labels of humanity. He wrote blank.

1:18.5

He wrote outliers. He wrote the tipping point. His new book is called Talking to Strangers.

1:23.4

This is one of the most in depth interviews about his new work and we did I would say a

1:28.9

bang up job. You know him and I had a great conversation and I can't wait for you to

1:33.1

hear it if you haven't already. Also I write every so often on the blog. The latest

1:37.0

post is the downside to following your intuition. You know, when are we following our intuition

1:42.7

and it's a good thing and when are we following what we think is our intuition and it's just

1:46.3

all of our BS trauma garbage baggage guiding us or misguiding us. Well, it's hard to tell

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