My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders,

unresolved trauma, and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves, and then

others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to bring unhealthy patterns

and grow in yourself work. I'm She Nelachee Love Edition coach and trauma

specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel.

I am so grateful to be in front of you again this week

to have the privilege and honor to be able to teach you and

support you and hopefully bring a topic that's going to help you have better

relationships and particularly for this week's episode to help manage your expectations to find a really sweet spot between

Balancing your standards and making those be true for you while also letting people in and making sure that you're not

setting yourself up to have a broken heart. But I shared that I was going to send a masterclass.

So I sent a 25 minute lesson on how to protect yourself from having a broken heart and so I'm going to share the audio here

We're going to break down what does it look like to set healthy expectations where you're not living in fantasy

and making sure that you're clear with yourself about what is it that I'm looking for from this

person and I'm not going to go into specifics about

what's the things that you can look for and other people are but more so how can

you know emotionally if you're requiring something from someone if you're starting to be in fantasy

about who you want them to be and how you want them to show up versus was actually in front of you.

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