I remember being that woman that was like, I'm in my 30s, already have a child.

The clock is ticking, right?

And I remember telling him and saying, which is so frightening now, but I remember saying,

I'm not going to be dating you forever.

So you need to figure out what you're like.

We're in our third date.

We didn't really know each other. We dated for six months before he proposed.

Had a very small wedding.

And had we dated longer, we would have realized that we were better as friends as we are right now.

And I had not thought about what I wanted and needed for myself as a woman, only what I wanted and needed for myself as a leather.

He had been given an ultimatum by a beautiful woman and felt he's in his 30s.

It's time for him to settle down and be serious.

You know, it's just like this recipe for disaster that I feel so many couples find themselves in,

and some are able to make it work, and some are not.

Hey, friend, welcome back to the Light Watkins show. I'm Light Watkins, and I have conversations with ordinary folks, like you and me who've taken extraordinary

leaps of faith in the direction of their path, their purpose, or what they've identified

as their mission in life. And today, I've got another bite-sized plot twist episode for you.

Remember, a plot twist is a shorter clip from a past episode where the guest shares the

story of that pivotal moment in their life that helped them to change course toward what

eventually became their path or their purpose. And the idea behind sharing their plot twist

is to inspire you to lean into those plot twists whenever they happen

in your life because they're often those detours that lead you exactly to where you need to be

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