#254: Love, Forgiveness and Healing with Danielle LaPorte

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.9 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 9 January 2023

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Themes: Virtuosity, Self-Love, Self-Awareness, Virtue Signaling, Cancel Culture, Transformation, Boundaries, Forgiveness, Narcissism Summary: Back for the second time is my good friend, Danielle Laporte. Danielle is an author, speaker, podcaster and a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100, a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” In this episode, Danielle and I chat about allll the things, including true, embodied virtuosity, virtue signaling, cancel culture, boundaries, narcissism and how to be loving in a world that’s waking up. Danielle is the author of The Fire Starter Sessions, The Desire Map, White Hot Truth, and producer of dozens of meditation kits and online programs for spiritual support. Her most recent book, How To Be Loving…when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up, is also an Audiobook + ebook, with a companion deck and journal. Danielle is the creator of the Heart Centered Membership and the Heart Centered Leadership Program with 400+ leaders in 30 countries hosting conversation circles, retreats, and workshops in all kinds of communities and businesses. Her podcast, With Love, Danielle, often ranks in iTunes’ top 10 for wellness. Most of her offerings—from the Heart Centered Membership to her online classes—are on a pay what you choose basis. Named one of the Top 100 Websites for Women by Forbes, millions of people a month visit DanielleLaPorte.com. Discover: Having reverence for your shadow and the parts of yourself you dislike Our thoughts on virtue signaling and what it truly means to be virtuous The absurdity of cancel culture A theory on why there’s tyranny and evil in the world Setting boundaries from a loving and healed place Forgiving yourself and others (even if you feel like they’re unforgivable) Things to reflect on if you’ve been with a narcissist 00:00 Intro 03:45 The turning point in Danielle’s work 07:51 Loving what you hate about yourself 11:52 Psychological virtue 15:04 Virtue signaling 22:08 Cancel culture 27:07 Theory about tyranny 31:57 How To Be Loving 37:59 Boundaries 43:18 Forgiving the unforgivable 46:27 Narcissism 48:28 Overidentification 51:22 Becoming radiant Links: Website | daniellelaporte.com Instagram | @daniellelaporte Book | How To Be Loving... when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up Podcast | With Love, Danielle Sponsors: LMNT | LMNT is a tasty electrolyte drink mix that replaces vital electrolytes without sugars and dodgy ingredients found in conventional sports drinks. Get a FREE LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase at drinklmnt.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0	Love begins for a lot of us as concept. I think when we're born, we just are it, and then we get all this social conditioning and program, and the structures get into place. Like, you're a Virgo, you're a Christian, you're a Canadian, you're a whatever. But I think once we're adults and we're really using our free agency, we play with what love is and what generosity is and forgiving is.
0:20.9	So it's intellectual, it's conceptual, and the ego is going to be involved.
0:28.3	Welcome to the Mark Rose podcast.
0:30.6	I have returning guest, Danielle Laporte.
0:33.5	Welcome.
0:34.2	Hello, returning listeners.
0:35.6	Hello, Mark.
0:36.3	Abiding, Mark.
0:37.4	Never left. Exactly. I'm so listeners. Hello, Mark. Abiding, Mark. Never left.
0:38.9	Exactly.
0:39.9	I'm so excited to have you back on.
0:42.1	Obviously, our conversation last time was hit in the depths and people love listening to you.
0:47.5	And I think it's because of a resonance of how you communicate, how you write.
0:51.4	It just touches the soul on such a deep level. And your new book, How to Be Loving,
0:57.1	when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up. I'm not sure that any true
1:02.0	words have been spoken because I feel like the waking up of the world requires the breaking of
1:06.7	the heart and those seem to be synonymous with one another you know heartbreak leads to wake up to
1:12.4	as an individual so what led you to to go from where you have been you know writing doing desire
1:19.1	map and all the things to this space of writing how to be loving desire is out virtue is in
1:26.1	that's like...
1:28.3	Desire's out, virtue's in.
1:31.0	Feelings are so passe.
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