253 - Gaslighting, Manipulating, & Lying

Pure Desire Podcast

Pure Desire Ministries

Sexual Addiction Recovery, Religion & Spirituality, Celebrate Recovery, Sexuality, Porn Recovery, Porn Addiction Recovery, Health & Fitness, Aa, Education, Betrayal Trauma, Recovery, Biblical Recovery, Christian Recovery, Healing, Sa, Christianity, Self-improvement

4.6 • 682 Ratings

🗓️ 10 May 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Men and women struggling with unwanted sexual behavior or sexual brokenness often work very hard to protect themselves. Protecting themselves from the pain in life and protecting themselves from the consequences of their behavior. This often takes the form of gaslighting, manipulating, and lying. On today’s episode, we’re joined by one of our clinicians, Eileen Fagan, to talk through why those struggling chose these behaviors, how spouses can identify them, and how couples can heal from their effects.

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0:00.0	You're listening to The Pure Desire Podcast.
0:03.9	You're a safe place to find hope, healing, and freedom from sexual addiction, betrayal, and relationship issues.
0:13.4	What's up, people?
0:14.3	I'm your host, Trevor Windsor, and you're listening to Episode 253 of the Pure Desire Podcasts.
0:18.1	You're joining me as always as my co-host, Nick Stumbo.
0:20.7	What? That's crazy. You're crazy. I have no freaking idea. I'm sure it wasn't accurately or well
0:29.5	quoted, but there's a great... You say that a lot. Can we address that real quick? I feel like
0:33.2	you shame all of your own intro. Well, there's probably some truth that I'm not like a ventriloquist or, no, what would
0:38.9	the phrase be for someone that does him?
0:41.2	I'm not, I'm not good at impersonation.
0:42.9	An impressionist.
0:43.5	But I love like quoting movie lines.
0:45.7	So there's great outtakes at the end of the Ryan Reynolds, Sandra Bollock film, The Proposos.
0:52.2	And it's the character Oscar Nunez that he plays in that, which he's such a weird
0:56.8	character in the movie, so I don't really recommend his parts.
0:59.3	But at the end, the US, you know, customs guys like, are you a U.S. citizen?
1:04.5	And he's like, what?
1:05.7	You're crazy.
1:06.8	That's crazy.
1:08.3	And, you know, it's really evident he's not.
1:11.0	But that's, you know, where it's from is the proposal.
1:13.6	All right.
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