What's up guys? This Jamie Grace, welcome to wait it out a podcast about dating,

relationships, and other things worth waiting for. This question comes from a guy via

Instagram, but I also give this question via email a lot, just in person a lot

with my other friends, and he wants to know and they

will know the people want to know because I'm getting married in April any tips on

beating the awkward wedding night l-o-l-l-oL, so in case you're wondering what this is all about.

Now, I don't know this guy, I don't know his whole story, but a lot of people ask this question

because they either are waiting, or they have been waiting for a little while.

One of the spouses could be, you know, have been waiting forever.

One of the houses could have been waiting for a few weeks, few months, few years, whatever it is, this typically

is a question that is asked when at least one of the spouses is dealing with the fear of being pretty inexperienced or the reality of being pretty inexperienced when it comes to sexually that's what we're talking about on this podcast episode today. So that's where we're talking about on this podcast episode today so that's where we're

gonna go as you guys know we have another waited and so I'm not gonna be sharing

our exact story because that would be quite you you know, just not cool.

But I am just going to share with you guys

some things as far as like what we talked about and how we went about things

before we got married.

Now, I will say that I had heard from so many

people that you know the wedding night it's going to be super awkward it's going to be

the worst it's going to be super weird and you know it's just oh my goodness like why are you waiting and

those people that were saying those things were typically people that

either hadn't waited or wouldn't have encouraged me to wait.

However, for the most part, when I talked to friends

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