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Do You F*cking Mind?

248. How to approach closure differently and really move on

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 914 Ratings

šŸ—“ļø 28 September 2023

ā±ļø 42 minutes

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Summary

Hello my beautiful beans! In this episode I’m gunna talk you through how to get closure in your life; primarily about romantic relationships but you could also apply a lot of this to friendships or even losing a job or opportunity.

Brain Fact: Borderline Personality Disorder

Listener Question: My ex has said they want to keep the door open on our relationship now that we've broken up. What should I do?

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CREDITS

Host: Alexis FernandezĀ 
Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
Digital Producer: Oscar GordonĀ 
Social Producer: Shania Magua
Managing Producer: Sam CavanaghĀ 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

A Listener Production

0:03.9

Please leave your message after the tone

0:07.4

Why am I jealous of my ex?

0:09.8

I am so stressed all the time.

0:11.9

How do I get into a routine?

0:13.4

Is TikTok making me anxious?

0:15.2

I think I'm being manipulated.

0:17.0

Someone told me you could live with half a brain.

0:19.5

This is Do You Fucking Minds?

0:21.2

Mindset Hacks for a Badass Life, hosted by me, Alexis Fernandez.

0:26.6

Hello, my beautiful beans and welcome to the episode of today.

0:30.0

So while I haven't fully figured out what the title of the episode is,

0:33.3

it's all around how to deal with not getting closure from the person that ended the relationship.

0:38.9

Now, this is primarily me talking about romantic relationships, but you could also apply a lot of

0:46.4

what I talk about in this episode to friendships that have ended and even jobs that you have lost

0:51.5

that you didn't really get much of an explanation around.

0:54.7

Okay.

0:55.2

So we're covering everything, but the bulk of it is going to be about romantic relationships.

1:01.5

So, yeah, this episode is going to cover basically how to deal with the pain of not getting closure.

1:09.5

Why it hurts so much, why some people need closure

1:13.9

more than other people because it's like a sliding scale of how much closure you need, why we

1:20.7

feel that we can't move on without it, because there's valid reasons why we can't move on

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