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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

247: ENCORE: Lying, Sneaking, Cheating. What Keeps Kids From Being Honest?

Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

Kids & Family, Mental Health, Parenting, Health & Fitness

4.8720 Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

When your child lies about homework, screen time, or where they’ve been, it can feel like a punch to the gut. But what if lying isn’t a sign of bad character, and instead a normal part of growing up? In this encore episode of “Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens and Teens,” psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and journalist Reena Ninan look at lying from a developmental standpoint and help parents understand what’s really going on when kids bend the truth. A request for privacy doesn’t always mean something sneaky, and your response can make all the difference in whether your child learns to be honest. 💡 YOU’LL LEARN: - Why kids lie (and what their lies may be trying to protect) - Ways to make truth-telling feel safe in your home - How to model integrity and forgiveness when mistakes happen - What it really means for kids to develop a healthy conscience Originally released in 2021, this encore episode feels just as timely today for parents navigating honesty, trust, and growing independence. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan. Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/ Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com Episode keywords: teen lying, why kids lie, child honesty, parenting trust, tween behavior Podcast keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

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0:00.0

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0:08.4

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0:48.9

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0:54.7

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0:59.7

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1:17.8

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1:20.2

We're here to help you untangle family life.

1:25.6

Encore episode 247.

1:31.2

Lying, Sneaking, Cheating, What Keeps Kids from Being Honest?

1:41.7

This encore episode takes a deep dive into honesty, why kids lie, sneak, or cheat,

1:45.3

and how we as parents can respond in ways that actually help them grow.

1:52.3

Even though it aired a few years ago, the lessons are timeless, especially as families spend more time together during the holidays.

1:53.6

Have a great Thanksgiving.

2:01.0

It's official. I went and got a checkup. I am 10 pounds heavier than I was a year ago.

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