246: Ask a Sexual Question and Get "I don't know" For An Answer - What to Do?

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 4 September 2020

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

As a sexual pursuer, how can you open a conversation with your sexually withdrawing partner? What are some typical questions that pursuers ask and how can they ask them in a better way without being dismissed? Ever asked your partner: What are your sexual fantasies? What turns you on? How do you like to be touched? These questions are often met with an "I don't know" response - and we know it's so frustrating to the sexual pursuer who has planned and thought about them only to be seemingly met with disinterest and rejection. Hear Laurie and George talk about how sexual pursuers can open communication with their partner about sex and reduce the pushing energy that blocks their partner? Open up to curiosity and leave them wanting something more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.4	George, we're going to talk today about how to... The following content is not suitable for children.
0:32.5	George, we're going to talk today about how to ask the sexual withdrawal questions that they might just answer.
0:39.0	I can't wait to hear.
0:40.0	Welcome to Four Play Radio, Couples and Sex Therapy. I'm Lori Watson, your sex therapist.
0:49.0	And I'm George Fallon, the Couples therapist.
0:51.0	And we are passionate about talking about sex and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.
0:57.0	Our mission is to help our audience develop a healthier relationship to sex that integrates the mind, the heart, and the body.
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1:14.2	for Play Radio. I'm going to call them Dee and Damien and he really wants more
1:20.1	variety in their sex life. He's all about breadth of what you want to, you know,
1:25.2	what he wants to do in bed and I really think she's about depth. I think that she's
1:30.2	inviting him into an intimate place that he can't quite get the vision for yet, but she listens to the podcast and
1:40.4	apparently she listened to the vibrator episode and so she she tells them she wants to buy a vibrator
1:47.6	and of course she buys one and never gets out So what do you think he wants to ask her? A whole lot of
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