What's up guys? It's Jamie Graz and welcome to Wait It Out a Podcast all about dating relationships and other things worth waiting for.

So I did not do an episode yesterday. I went to the doctor today

And I'm so happy because it's not a big deal.

I thought I had a way worse situation.

But a lot of you guys know that I have Tourette syndrome and so sometimes like just with like any kind of you know arm hurting or

leg hurting or something like that I just like I have to go to the doctors just to

double check but everything's okay it's just I did not do an episode yesterday because that's when I was kind of like oh my goodness

I'm probably going to have to get all my limbs amputated because sometimes I just

kind of immediately go there in my mind but I'm'm okay. I'm great. Everything's fine and I'm back to

the podcast. This question, I'm so ready to go into this question because I have an

answer and it's going to be the quickest answer for the longest

question and so yeah let's jump right into it it says hi Jamie I have feelings for

someone but he has a girlfriend and he loves her He's way older than me so he's in the

right age for a relationship and this is the girl he prayed for for quite some

time and he's sure about this relationship. We're very close. He sees me as a pure

close sibling and I am very sure of that. We care for each other but I see

him kind of beyond a friend. My question is how do I get rid of my feelings for

him that developed over time because you know it hurts when feelings are not reciprocated and I get jealous when I see him and her girl oh him and okay cool

y'all know what she means so I just really want to get rid of my feelings for him without ruining our fragile relationship because I don't only see him as a friend but a family even before I develop feelings for him.

I still want to keep him as my family for a good long time. Please keep me anonymous.

The first thing that I would say, I'm not trying to sound harsh, but I'm going to sound harsh because

this is one of those situations where no matter how old you are it's

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