243. How Chinese Medicine Can Transform Your Sex Life: Pain During Sex, ED Support & Pleasure Tips

Honeydew Me

Cassandra Anderson

Self-improvement, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 533 Ratings

🗓️ 3 December 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Traditional Chinese medicine looks at your sex life very differently than Western medicine and honestly, it’s VERY refreshing. In this episode, we’re joined by Jaiming Ju, a 2nd-generation Chinese medicine practitioner and founder of Kun Health, to talk about how TCM understands libido, pain during sex, ED, arousal, and overall sexual wellbeing. We get into body patterns, energy balance, lifestyle habits, and what your symptoms are actually trying to tell you. We cover: How Chinese medicine understands sex and pleasure. Jaiming explains why sexual health is seen as a major indicator of overall wellbeing, not an isolated issue. Why pain during sex is never “just in your head”. How TCM views dryness, pelvic pain, tension, and discomfort and why it’s almost always linked to imbalance, depletion, or circulation issues. Understanding libido changes. How arousal, desire, and lubrication map to warmth, energy, and hormonal patterns + how aging, stress, lifestyle, and depletion impact the body. ED from a TCM perspective. Why erections are about circulation, warmth, and “yang energy,” and what it means when interest and performance don’t match. Tongue diagnosis and what it reveals about your sex life. Yes, your tongue really can show dryness, heat, coldness, stress patterns, or issues affecting libido. Why stress and exhaustion shut down desire. How nervous system overload, burnout, and irregular routines drain the body’s resources and impact arousal. Practical pleasure support from a Chinese medicine lens. Food, warmth, routines, habits, and small changes that help your body feel safer, softer, and more responsive during sex. How to support long-term sexual health at every age. Daily practices Jaiming recommends to maintain circulation, lubrication, desire, and overall balance. Connect with Jaiming HERE! Follow her on Instagram HERE! ⁠Learn more about Honeydew Me 1:1 coaching HERE!⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Get Honeydew Me Merch HERE!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	One in a million.
0:02.0	You're a jam shine when the light grows dim.
0:04.3	See one, two, three, four, three, two, one.
0:08.2	Because no one can do it like we do it, like who we do it, like we do it, like we do it.
0:12.3	Because no one can do it like we do it.
0:14.6	Like we do it.
0:15.6	Like we do it.
0:15.7	Like we do it.
0:16.9	Hi.
0:18.1	Hi.
0:19.0	Like.
0:21.6	Don't look at me with those eyes. You think my eyes are big.
0:23.6	Hello and welcome to Honeydumee Podcast.
0:27.6	I'm Emma.
0:28.6	And I'm Cass.
0:29.6	And this is our podcast where we just break down all the nitty gritty that there is when it comes to sex and mental health and relationships.
0:36.6	All of the things that we are taught should just be the easiest damn things in the world.
0:41.7	And so when you're not good at them, you feel like you're broken.
0:44.6	But we are here to tell you that you are absolutely not broken.
0:47.1	You are not alone.
0:47.9	We are on the same path as you.
0:49.4	Nobody is special.
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